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I went out with a guy last year (nearly a year ago infact) for about 2 months, wasn't very serious and we split up. He tried to get me back for a while but he moved on and he's just recently got a new girlfriend.
Anyway I was out clubbin earlier this week and I saw one of his mates who I immediatly went over and started chatting to as I usually do. Bit different this time though, I ended up snogging him! He got my number and came round last night and I really like him
He's not very close mates with the guy that I went out with now so he's not bothered that I'm his ex. Still my rule is always 'don't go near ex's friends or friend's exs'.
How would you feel if a mate was going out with your ex?
Do you think that the fact that I went out with his mate is a problem or not?
Thanx in advance
Anyway I was out clubbin earlier this week and I saw one of his mates who I immediatly went over and started chatting to as I usually do. Bit different this time though, I ended up snogging him! He got my number and came round last night and I really like him
He's not very close mates with the guy that I went out with now so he's not bothered that I'm his ex. Still my rule is always 'don't go near ex's friends or friend's exs'.
How would you feel if a mate was going out with your ex?
Do you think that the fact that I went out with his mate is a problem or not?
Thanx in advance
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if all of you were still close friends, and had feelings flyin around all over the place, it would get difficult, but as far as i can tell this ex is outta the picture, so it should be ok.
good luck.
Im sure aslong as you have both moved on, you'll be fine
I'm hoping that it's not going to be a problem cos I really do like this lad. I guess I'll see how it goes. They did used to be close friends but they've fallen out a few times and now they just say hi if they see each other or whatever.
Anyway thanx for your advice