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I havent ever "Came"....
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When me and my boyfriend are having sex, I can orgasm(i dont have a problem with having an orgasm at all) but when it comes to cuming, i havent ever done that. My friends have talked about that before and they said they all have "came" before. They said when they have an orgasm, they feel like they are going to pee but really its cum that coming out. I havent had the urge to pee when im having an orgasm. Is there something wrong with me??
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Be pleased you can orgasm! 40% of women can't even orgasm at all, or summat.
As for the g-spot malark, you need to work on that. Try alternative positions?
:yes:
Depending on the pressure, sometimes a girl will get that wet that she will ejeaculate after a very powerful orgasm. It is something I've found that is attributed to anal sex and stimulation of the so-called "g-spot", but most women don't do this, so it's nothing to worry about. Your friends are either lying, getting confused, or their orgasms make them feel like they want to pee. Remember that the urethra and the vagina are separate, so coming doesn't make any difference to wanting to pee- it's not like in men.
That basically means that you HAVE CAME... which is also grammatically incorrect as you should "HAVE COME"...
D'uh :rolleyes:
Ilora x
doh!
in order to experience female ejaculation you need to stimulate your g-spot aswell. that brings on a sensation of wanting to wee. if you carry on then a clear liquid is either squirted or kinda dribbled from your uretha. its the same place as where you wee but it's not actually wee, just a clear liquid.
there's nothing wrong with you, a lot of women have never experienced this.
I am 19. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now.
We were actually friends for 2 years before we got together so Ive known him for 5 years. We have a very honest relationship. Im not trying to follow the crowd, my friends had talked about it like it was amazing. I have heard people talk about it alot. And I cant help but wonder if there was something wrong with me because I couldnt. But now i know that im not alone when it comes to never ejaculating.
Ilora x
God, what crawled up your arse and died?
Get over it. Jesus.
No its not!
Coming is slang for being in the state of orgasm/ejaculation, hence "I'm coming," "im going to come," "I just came 3 times, you were amazing," incidentally something I hear a lot*
So the title of the thread is wrong, it should be "I've never come," and I sympathise with Ilora-Danon, its damn irritating!
As for the question, I was under the impression that a girl can have two types of orgasm, clitoral and G-spot. Clitoral is often lighter and G-spot heavier, but not always. Some girls can only have one or the other , some find it difficult to have either, and some can have both. As for the peeing/ejaculation thing, it is a recognised thing, but not all girls can do it, in fact i think its a small minority.
Also I think girls get confused about whether they orgasm or not...at least the ones who dont have full on ones. I've slept with girls who thought that the feeling of being completely turned on after being penetrated was orgasm, when it pretty obviously wasn't. Others who claim they've had like 15 from one session, which seems unlikely, since whenever I've brought a girl to proper orgasm, and from what I've heard from others, its not an easy thing for her to carry on (thats not a boast, I assume its true of most girls after they come) because they're usually completely exhausted and short of breath. I even knew a girl who could barely move for five or ten minutes afterwards.
Not that I'm saying multiple orgasm is impossible or even unlikely, but i think its rarer than you'd think from what girls say, as they'res confusion as to what each feeling is (probably because its so hard to describe!).
*ok, from watching porn
It's not the be all and end all thought! i mean the way i see it is as long as you enjoy yourself whilst have sex having an orgasm or "coming" is just a added extra
Dont worry about it luv
wow grammer wars. i agree with idora but we gotta open up a separate thread for thi, it's groovy. bringg on the thesauruses, quotation dictionaries and past dangling participles
xxx