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helping someboady deal with death?
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its in the title really, is there anything else i can do apart from be there to talk to?
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Iv had to do this twice and its not a nice thing but as long as your there it will help them get through it.
What I would reccomend is do your best to just act as though nothings happened and carry on as normal. If they want to talk about whats happened they will. Obviously you can say "sorry to hear about whoever" and leave it at that. Just try to be your normal self, im sure thats how most people would feel.
Yeah I think I agree with that. Obviously, say something to show that you're thinking of them, and that you care, and then carry on as normal- this could help them keep their mind off stuff too. Then if they wanna talk to you about it, then they'll be the ones to bring it up.
Hope that helps. It's a very difficult matter though, hope it goes ok xxxx
Think the best thing to do is just act normal - let them know you're there for them
best thing to do, i think, is let them know that whatever they want to say you'll listen to, and you'll be there for them. and then just get on with life.
my only experience with helping someone through grief is with my cousin when my aunt (her mum) died last year. but i suppose that was different, cause we were both missing her.
we used to chat about the memories we had of her, laugh about what she'd be doing now, organising heaven and stuff. don't presume they don't want to talk about the dead person. we always thought that the best way to get over her not being here now is to never forget the times she was here.
I beleive men kind of act strong and dont show their feelings like women do. Women like to talk and remember the person, smile about stuff that they did whereas men just dont seem to want to open up.
I hope that made sense, it does to me anyhow. My excuse is im tired.
just be there for your friend, dont treat her any differently. just let them know they can talk to you+leave it then, they'll know where to find you