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advice please.....
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hi again everyone. i've been away for a while trying to sort things out with the girl who was abused... but now i have yet another problem and i need some advice!!!
ok, first a quick background on the problem for those who dont know me, i met a girl a while ago who had been sexually abused, her ex b/f also tried to rape her and then she went through a period of self harming.
ive been here for her and she knows she can talk to me whenever she wants (day or night). but recently shes started getting really depressed and has started ignoring me. these spells of depression have lasted weeks before she starts talking to me again and then almost straight away she starts ignoring me again!
the other problem is something she said the other day... she was really depressed and started taunting me. the then said "sorry, i thought that taunting you would cheer me up but it just hurt me more, looks like i do have feelings 4u."
Then she logged off MSN and she hasnt spoken to me since.
Sorry this has been a long post, but can you give me some advice please?
Thanks so much everyone <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Dai
ok, first a quick background on the problem for those who dont know me, i met a girl a while ago who had been sexually abused, her ex b/f also tried to rape her and then she went through a period of self harming.
ive been here for her and she knows she can talk to me whenever she wants (day or night). but recently shes started getting really depressed and has started ignoring me. these spells of depression have lasted weeks before she starts talking to me again and then almost straight away she starts ignoring me again!
the other problem is something she said the other day... she was really depressed and started taunting me. the then said "sorry, i thought that taunting you would cheer me up but it just hurt me more, looks like i do have feelings 4u."
Then she logged off MSN and she hasnt spoken to me since.
Sorry this has been a long post, but can you give me some advice please?
Thanks so much everyone <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Dai
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What the smeg was all that?
we haven't had much success.