Really Don't Understand

Former Member

Hi, I found out a girl fancied me last week, so at the weekend met up with her, got on well and pulled her.

I aked her out 4 a drink during the week, she said yeh, so i said I'd b in touch-which I was.

I text her on Monday, but she's still not replied. She seemed very into me at the weekend, and up for going out.

I dont understand at all.

Ne1 ne ideas?

Former Member

no credit? - altho that is a pathetic excuse.
if u diont know her she mite have a fella
mite have had second thorts.
id suggest one more txt (if u have only sent one) and then if she doesnt reply leave it and move on. anymore txts than that would be a bit stalkerish

Former Member

well, if you really like her+u think she liked you too, then you could always just text her askin y she didnt reply, but as Mel-H said, dont pester her. she may have no credit+have no other way of contacting you, so maybe u could send her ur home number, but id only do that if i was certain that i liked her+she liked me.

hope things turn out ok, let us know

Former Member

How about actually calling her?

Former Member

NO don't text her again!!!! or call her. for all you know she might be playing it 'cool'. but if she isnt then have some dignity.

Former Member

Bloody text messages

I hate these things!!! "When I was a lad" we actually had to ring people...

Ring the girl for gods sake.

Text messages are such a shitty way of communicating when you are trying to get to know somebody! ARGH!

G.

Former Member

Re: Bloody text messages

Originally posted by g_angel007
I hate these things!!! "When I was a lad" we actually had to ring people...

Ring the girl for gods sake.

Text messages are such a shitty way of communicating when you are trying to get to know somebody! ARGH!

G.

:yes: :yes: :yes:

I text my friends and stuff but like if a girl gives me her number I'll phone her (after much worrying and feeling nervous )

Not that any girl has ever given me her number in that sense :eek2: except maybe one :chin:

I would say leave it for a bit then give her a ring / text her and say you had a bit of spare time and didn't have anything to do so thought you'd see how she was getting on that way you don't come off desperate hehe.

Former Member

She's probably not interested, sorry to say. If she wanted to text you, she would find a way even if she had no credit. There is playing hard to get but not waiting that long.