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i need advice... girl problems
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hey every1 - i used 2 be a member here and posted about 30 posts b4 i lost my password and what i was meant to be called...u may remeba i did a thread about my slapper mate...
anyway i need help again now!!!
basically, me and my girlfrined have been going out on the internet for about 6 months. we're hopefully going to meet this summer, but there are a LOT of things standing in the way...
the distence - she lives in scotland and i live in bucks!
also - and dont start on me plz ppl, but im also a gal, and im kinda stuck cos of what to do, seeing as i cant understand why it is taking her such a long time to admit that she is lez...i suppose i should understand really, seeing as my mates have been a bit wierd about this.
shouldnt really blame her tho, her mates, by all accounts, are real little shitbags.
we took a break for a while (well it wasnt exactly a break, we didnt talk to each other)and while this was happening, she cheated on me one night and gave a man a blo job. as far as i know, it was just one night, and we werent talking to each other, but even still it hurt me.
but i think i 4gave her too readily, and gave her the impression that it would be alright for her to do it again, even tho she said that she wouldn't. it only took about 5 text msgs b4 i was saying all the stuff like "i still luv u and will have sex with u some day blah blah blah"
it was late at night ok and what she'd done hadnt sunk in properly.
i think i forgave her too readily, i've been too shy 2 spk 2 her incase of her reaction.
she said she was sorry tho, and had the guts to tell it to me (albeit in txt)
im totally confused as to what i should do!
anyway i need help again now!!!
basically, me and my girlfrined have been going out on the internet for about 6 months. we're hopefully going to meet this summer, but there are a LOT of things standing in the way...
the distence - she lives in scotland and i live in bucks!
also - and dont start on me plz ppl, but im also a gal, and im kinda stuck cos of what to do, seeing as i cant understand why it is taking her such a long time to admit that she is lez...i suppose i should understand really, seeing as my mates have been a bit wierd about this.
shouldnt really blame her tho, her mates, by all accounts, are real little shitbags.
we took a break for a while (well it wasnt exactly a break, we didnt talk to each other)and while this was happening, she cheated on me one night and gave a man a blo job. as far as i know, it was just one night, and we werent talking to each other, but even still it hurt me.
but i think i 4gave her too readily, and gave her the impression that it would be alright for her to do it again, even tho she said that she wouldn't. it only took about 5 text msgs b4 i was saying all the stuff like "i still luv u and will have sex with u some day blah blah blah"
it was late at night ok and what she'd done hadnt sunk in properly.
i think i forgave her too readily, i've been too shy 2 spk 2 her incase of her reaction.
she said she was sorry tho, and had the guts to tell it to me (albeit in txt)
im totally confused as to what i should do!
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i really do care about her, i think. I am just not sure what i should do, seeing as I know that even when i was single, i still had feelings for her.
i hate bein in luv...
Secondly, this girl might think this whole relationship thing is a joke, and only be having an online relationship with you for a laugh. If she hasn't told anyone she is a lesban, maybe she isn't. At 14 a lot of people are confused about their sexuality and perhaps she is just experimenting, but without having to go through with anything real (ie. meeting or having a physical side to the relationship)
Perhaps she isn't even a 'she' at all, could be a spotty 12 year old kid pretending to be a girl for a sick joke. When I was younger (about your age actually) my friend pretended to be a bloke online (even set up an email address) and struck up a friendship with me, only to reveal 6 months later that it was her (and no, we aren't mates anymore)