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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I shall admit that lesbians turn me on.....most men will agree with me......do homosexual men turn females on?

Just wondering!

N!CE

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I take it that either pll are,

    1) Not talkin'
    2) Just not talkin' to me
    3) Sleepin

    Hmmmmmmmmm Okay

    N!CE
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not sleeping... this seems to be the only time I post on the boards nowadats... only time I'm in...
    Yeah get turned on by lesbians... every1 does I guess... just cos u get 2 naked woman apart from n e thing. N plus if ur watching porn for the appropriate reasons.. seeing some blokes dick n ass flashing about kinda puts u off a bit.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nah, not really. I suppose women feel safer around gays and we often get on with them better than we do with straight men. I don't know why.

    Gay blokes are often pretty good looking, but I don't think I'd see one as a potential partner.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The idea doesn't turn me on, sorta indifferent really, I guess. My gay m8s are great to talk to though, a lot more understanding than most guys I know, and you know their not just trying to get you into bed either!

    *|* Chica *|*


    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree gay men make the best friends! you can tell them anything somehow! but i have to say two men together doesn't turn me on at all - i don't understand the guys with the lesbian thing either really it seems weird to me!

    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    yeah the male of the species's obsession with lesbians is a bit odd. im not particularly turned on by gay people.. i watched "queer as folk" when it was on bbc2 a while back. i enjoyed the prog, not coz i get turned on by gay sex, i guess i like progs about people, relationships and stuff, and theres no reason why there shouldnt be a prog about the gay scene in manchester. but aiden gillen (irish one!) was quite tasty though...... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; ne one agree?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by PoP:
    homosexual men turn females on?


    I'm not turned on at all by homosexual men but i do agree with the above comments that gay men make gr8 friends and also that they r often v good looking.. maybe it's just the ones i know!

    I really dont get y c-ing 2 lesbians turns u guyz on.. bizaar



    love me :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That has answered my question...ta everyone!!!

    N!CE
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would just like to add something on the end of this. My best m8 is a dyke. We are like soulmates we are never apart from each other really, we even get in the bath together before we go out at weekends and have a drink. When I go out at weekends with her we spend half the night in the straight parts of town then we go to the gay village.
    I have lots of gay friends now, I have noticed the men are either really bitchy or really nice, they do not turn me on one bit, I have to say though being a girl I have tried it with women and didnt like it all that much but they actually turn me on a little bit even though I would not class myself as gay or bisexual. But I dont find my best mate attractive or see her in any way at all sexually attractive that would be like fancying my sister.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dam right gay blokes turn me on!!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A friend shared a house with (amongst others) a gay guy. She told me that she got really turned on when she saw him making out with another guy, and that it made things more interesting with her boyfriend that evening
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Spirit:
    I would just like to add something on the end of this. My best m8 is a dyke. We are like soulmates we are never apart from each other really, we even get in the bath together before we go out at weekends and have a drink. [snip] I have to say though being a girl I have tried it with women and didnt like it all that much but they actually turn me on a little bit even though I would not class myself as gay or bisexual. But I dont find my best mate attractive or see her in any way at all sexually attractive that would be like fancying my sister.


    Hmmm, are you sure your friend doesn't see you that way though? I mean.... taking a bath together??? Surely that's like foreplay in a lesbian relationship? (well, in any relationship really!)

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    whizzys got it right saying gay blokes are so much nicer.(as best mates) i go to gay clubs, ok both gay and straight are there and the guys i meet are great, i jokeingly take them round to see which blokes they fancy and we compare, it's so funny. But do they turn me on, fraid not, the idea doesn't even interest me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    as much as guys try to explain it to me, i still cant understand why alot of times this is The Ultimate Fantasy.
    i once snogged a girl, and i dont regret it. because, well, i kinda liked it. maybe because it left me feeling a bit safe. because with guys there's always the Talking With My Friend Dick kinda thing. but i didnt want to take it any further, because well, she wasnt a guy. and hell, i like those <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    ok, sorry for being freaky <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by PoP:
    I shall admit that lesbians turn me on.....most men will agree with me......do homosexual men turn females on?

    Just wondering!


    Yeah, it is the theory that all men like lesbian porn. as my mate says "twice as many pussy and no dick" ,but lesbian porn always just seems so fake and doesnt turn me on. am i the only bloke who thinks this?


    Respect
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    city_boy thank you!! there is sanity!!!

    fast as you can baby run free yourself of me fast as you can.
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    cunt
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i may be called weird, but i tend to agree with JsT on that one.
    porn kinda grosses me out a bit. mainly because i dont enjoy watching other people get at it. sorry, slightly religious upbringing <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; but i do understand why some people like it.
    still though.. i think too much of that stuff is unhealthy. but then, too much choccie is unhealthy and it never really stopped me at that time of month <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    its personal preference really. and i prefer to steer well clear of it. it only gives people an unreal impression.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    ickle, you're not weird for having kissed a girl before. i havent... although i possibly might at uni! but i have to say i still prefer guys, but whats wrong with some variety to make sure youve got it right??

    i dont much care for the visual sort of porn.. but some of the better written erotic stories are quite good and i admit i read them sometimes!!

    It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    2 girls doesn't really do anything extra for me. the idea is not repulsive, far from it, but it certainly isn't one of my ultimate fantasies like it is for some.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think part of the appeal is the interaction with the fantasizer.

    1) the girls aren't lezzies, they are doing it to please the man (power trip - not one, but two GFs who will do anything to please the all important man)

    2) the girls are, but when the man arrives, they will be so taken with his manly charms that they realise the error of their ways and have a lifetime of catching up to do - there and then - they are, of course, virgins. (ego trip - sexual prowess, and the eternal gratitude from the girls, who will do anything to please their redeemer)

    the consensus amongst bi girls seems to be what makes the guy think he's going to get a look in.

    Of course, fantasies are just fantasies, and to expect them to be PC is stupid.

    Me, I think *ewww* gross.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Alan london:

    Hmmm, are you sure your friend doesn't see you that way though? I mean.... taking a bath together??? Surely that's like foreplay in a lesbian relationship? (well, in any relationship really!)


    Well its not like were having a bath together well we are yeah but we get in b4 were going out with a drink and a smoke and talk about what we're gonna wear and where were gonna go and have a girly chat, its more like when u have abtah with ur sister when ur like 4 or something really. We dont get at the same end or nothing we sit with our legs out of it over the side, if you get what i mean........



    MTS ^5
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Spirit II:
    ... We dont get at the same end or nothing we sit with our legs out of it over the side, if you get what i mean........

    ..... I don't even want to think about the logistics of that - let alone the image LOL ! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    I'll get my coat.....

    HAPPY 2001 !
    Alan London


    [This message has been edited by Alan london (edited 11-01-2001).]
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    personally women kissing and stuff turns me on more than men doing the same! (with each other that is not with me... although i wouldnt know about that having only tried the male variety!)

    never say never eh? hehehe

    LH if you're reading this you'll be happy, quote from you and the subject matter! lol

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Alan london:
    ..... I don't even want to think about the logistics of that - let alone the image LOL ! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    I'll get my coat.....



    Well i know plenty of guys who'd give their legs to see me and tina in a bath together........ <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    When she was with lads b coming out one of them came in her bathroom once and his face dropped.......we just looked at each other and pissed ourselfs laughing.......ewww not literally...lol.....anyway it was a good job we use lots of bubbles!

    So it wasnt since shes come out that we did it, we're just like sisters and are really relaxed about being around each other naked (we dont make a point of taking our clothes off around each other, i just mean when we're getting changed and that), i actually think its pretty cool, i mean how many people can say they have a relationship with their best friend as relaxed and comfortable as that without having to worry about anything or getting embarrassed.


    MTS ^5
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    " men definately dont turn me on, they would probably turn me right off!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its not the thought of them taking it up the arse that turns me on! but alot of gay men are quite nice looking and if u ask me its a bit of a waste! joke. but nah i wouldnt go as far as to say they turn me on!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nah Gay Men do NOT turn me on! i dont have anything against Gay men but it makes me feel sick when i see somthing like that

    post you later
    lady* xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    icklemonster, are you still reading this? i know it's a little OT but I would be interested to know what part of wales you come from!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    God it's ages since i replied to this. Anyway i gotta say lesbians don't turn me on and gays don't scare the shit out of me like they do some ppl.


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