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Too Late....?
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Hi
well here's my problem.I've been seeing this guy for about a month now - well, not really seeing eachother, we were shagging partners,we both agreed that neither of us wanted a relationship.
Thing is, over the last week he's started seeing someone. He didnt tell me - i had to hear it from a mate. Problem is, now that he's seeing someone ive realised just how much i really like him. I asked a mutual friend of ours about it and she told me that he's started seeing someone else because he wanted a relationship,not just a shagging partner! but now ive realised that i want a relationship with him too, instead of just a fling.
I dont know what to do now. Our mate says he really likes me and wanted more than just sex from me, but he's moved on because its a relatiionship he's after. I really like this guy and havent felt this way about anyone for a long,long time.
Should i tell him how i feel about him? Or do you think its too late and i should just let him get on with it?
i'm so confused. Any advice anyone can give me i would be very grateful.
thankyou
well here's my problem.I've been seeing this guy for about a month now - well, not really seeing eachother, we were shagging partners,we both agreed that neither of us wanted a relationship.
Thing is, over the last week he's started seeing someone. He didnt tell me - i had to hear it from a mate. Problem is, now that he's seeing someone ive realised just how much i really like him. I asked a mutual friend of ours about it and she told me that he's started seeing someone else because he wanted a relationship,not just a shagging partner! but now ive realised that i want a relationship with him too, instead of just a fling.
I dont know what to do now. Our mate says he really likes me and wanted more than just sex from me, but he's moved on because its a relatiionship he's after. I really like this guy and havent felt this way about anyone for a long,long time.
Should i tell him how i feel about him? Or do you think its too late and i should just let him get on with it?
i'm so confused. Any advice anyone can give me i would be very grateful.
thankyou
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At first thats what i thought it was. but my feelings for him are too intense to be a case of "what i can't have".
CB