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how do i........?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
how do i ask my girlfriend to stay at my house?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "Girlfriend, would one care to stay at ones house?"

    Sounds simple enough to me!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Aspartame
    hehe :D

    "Might I be so bold as to suggest...etc."

    ..."that ones girlfriend might be so bold as to stay at ones house?" :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why is it such an issue?, is it 'cause you've not really approached the topic of sex yet and you're not sure how she'll take it?

    sorry that that's not much help
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just ask her to come over on friday and urm stay the night so that she dont have to go home, don't make it sound like your only trying to make her stay over for sex! That wont go down well, *cough* no pun intended.....

    Bopz
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i laughed out loud at this thread.

    is it a joke?

    why don't you post her a letter! hahaha
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Be really cheesy. Organise a treasure hunt that leads to your house and ultimately your bedroom. Then she's yours.

    Then again, maybe not. Better not to ask me this sort of stuff at this time of morning...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If 'stay at my house' is code for 'I want to have sex' then you should really be addressing that issue first. Increasing the amount of intamacy between yourself and a partner should never be rushed or pushed, so make sure whatever step you are taking, it is done sensitively and with the other person's feelings in mind. Most of all, if she isn't ready, accept it and wait until she is.
    :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Get a film one night and dont put it on till kinda late-
    Pretend your interested in watching something else first or a taped soap or whatever.
    Then when its over cuddle up to her for a while,
    And tell her you really dont want her to leave and ask her to stay the night, and ring her mother if need be!

    If nothing else it will see how she reacts to the issue!

    But for sex try a more open approach and dont act like you have it planned!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How about "Do you fancy staying at mine sometime?"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "Wanna shag? Your place or mine?"

    :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by The Philosopher
    "Wanna shag? Your place or mine?"

    :D

    Lets go back to my place and do all the things im going to say we done anyway!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    try tellin her that you'd love to fall asleep with her in your arms. Thus meaning she'd have to stay over ideally.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Janjan
    try tellin her that you'd love to fall asleep with her in your arms. Thus meaning she'd have to stay over ideally.


    cheesy :p :no:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lucifer devil
    cheesy :p :no:

    ye but it'll still work, i think it's sweet every time my bf says it, it never gets old, and hes stayin over at mine this weekend ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "shack it up over here! breakfast in bed, innit! BIATCH!"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just say to her "hey if you ain't got any other plans on *insert day here*, do you wanna come over in the evening. we can get a video and a take away and have a nice night together, and there's plenty of room at mine to crash if you want to"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 1983
    "shack it up over here! breakfast in bed, innit! BIATCH!"

    Must try that one on t'missus...:lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sprocket
    just say to her "hey if you ain't got any other plans on *insert day here*, do you wanna come over in the evening. we can get a video and a take away and have a nice night together, and there's plenty of room at mine to crash if you want to"

    thats a nice one...all i get is oi there's plenty of room at mine if you want to stay over...im like "fine " :mad: :mad: :mad: talk about not sugar coating it...at all!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by The Icy Aphrodite
    thats a nice one...all i get is oi there's plenty of room at mine if you want to stay over...im like "fine " :mad: :mad: :mad: talk about not sugar coating it...at all!!!

    what can i say, the ladies like a bit of romance:naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sprocket
    what can i say, the ladies like a bit of romance:naughty:

    lol no i just like sugar coating ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    here's 20p phone your ma and tell her you wont be home in the morning!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If she gets upset that she has to leave you just say "well you could always stay the night if you want..?"

    If you're out together, ask if you can take advantage of her good nature. Continue to say you need a place to sleep that night. (Stolen from the bill :p)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Janjan
    try tellin her that you'd love to fall asleep with her in your arms. Thus meaning she'd have to stay over ideally.

    Yeah then slip her one.

    Ideally she would have to be awake or that could be classed as rape...
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