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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ur g/f or someone ur kinda seeing but not going otu with, keeps putting u off and and not being to open abotu how thye feel

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    she may just be shy, maybe not wanting anything too serious. try talkin to her <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    could be one of a few things..

    she might be putting you off because shes not sure about the way she feels or
    as said above, she may be shy, and like me may have trouble expressing how she really feels. Try and talk to her a bit about it, try and get her to open up about stuff, i usually manage if i have a bit of encouragement <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Lxxx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Love the nick, *cant think what ur inspiration was* <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

    Ill just have to agree with those two ^^^^^, try and talk to her about it!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ........or, take a hint? If this person isn't saying "I LOVE YOU", they probably don't. Sorry.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Captain Kirk:
    ........or, take a hint? If this person isn't saying "I LOVE YOU", they probably don't. Sorry.


    i dont agree with this. ok so maybe she doesnt like him in that way but there is the chance that she does and is just to shy and scared to talk about her feelings. i myself am like that and am absolutely scared shitless of telling a guy how i feel. i just prefer not talking about it and so maybe this is how she feels.
    anyways turtlehead talk to her as i said before or u'll never know if she likes you or not
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "love" is really an overused term, you have to appreciate what it really is and what it should feel lik before telling someone you love them

    cuz if u say it to someone, and then feel more about someone else, it wasnt true love the first time ... so then you'd never be sure

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *ád înfînîtûm*:
    "love" is really an overused term

    Personally, I think that "love" is an UNDERUSED term in the English language. The sexual form of love has swamped all other meanings of the word.

    The Greeks had (at least) three distinct words for love:
    philos - love as between friends, or for something inanimate
    agape - brotherly or familial love
    eros - erotic / sexual love

    I forget the point I was trying to make now... Or perhaps that was it. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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