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Fink we're gonna break up...help
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i'm really happy wiv my g/f, really really really really happy. i love her tons, trust her, care about her...
but sommit stupid's happened
she's at a festival wiv her mates, who im mates wiv too, and she read one of their fones. in a msg from me it said i loved this girl (which is true, as a mate) and that id look after her. i also referred to her as my babe.
the reason is cuz she may be gettin wiv someone she really likes, but he's a bit of a player and she's not sure. i do love her as a mate, i will look out for her and altho im not goin out wiv her, she is very close to me so i consider her my babe. just sweet, y'know?
anyway my g.f read this and seems to think some kind of an affair has gone on. ive rung her and text her and stuff, but they're all at this festival. ive told her its not true, i love her, to ask her etc but she's just ignored me now and it dont seem ive got thru to her
its quite ironic considering when she came back from hol i jokingly used a new sim card to see if she'd pulled anyone and it seemed like she had, she denied it and said some kid was convinced he had but i reckon she did pull someone else. it doesnt botha me too much cuz at the end of the day she wanted to be wiv me...
i said id trust her unconditionally - cuz thats wat trust is about, its no use checking up on her all the time like she's a 4 yr old. i love her and i trust her.
but she cant seem to do the same for me. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> its crappy, shes hurt me quite a bit saying some of the stuff she has and she cant get her head round the idea i can love another girl as a mate.
any suggestions as to what i can say/do??? nefin???? i will try and sort this out, but im just asking if theres anything new that i havent tried before etc
we aint been going out long, but we were seeing each other for about a month before we did go out. in that time we got close and shes like a best mate to me now as well as a girlfriend...i really dont wanna lose her and i think if i did lose her she would be seen as over reacting somewhat, but i just wanted to see if anyone else thought id done something wrong??
Death is one of the few things that can be done as easily lying down. The difference between sex and death is that with death you can do it alone and no one is going to make fun of you
but sommit stupid's happened
she's at a festival wiv her mates, who im mates wiv too, and she read one of their fones. in a msg from me it said i loved this girl (which is true, as a mate) and that id look after her. i also referred to her as my babe.
the reason is cuz she may be gettin wiv someone she really likes, but he's a bit of a player and she's not sure. i do love her as a mate, i will look out for her and altho im not goin out wiv her, she is very close to me so i consider her my babe. just sweet, y'know?
anyway my g.f read this and seems to think some kind of an affair has gone on. ive rung her and text her and stuff, but they're all at this festival. ive told her its not true, i love her, to ask her etc but she's just ignored me now and it dont seem ive got thru to her
its quite ironic considering when she came back from hol i jokingly used a new sim card to see if she'd pulled anyone and it seemed like she had, she denied it and said some kid was convinced he had but i reckon she did pull someone else. it doesnt botha me too much cuz at the end of the day she wanted to be wiv me...
i said id trust her unconditionally - cuz thats wat trust is about, its no use checking up on her all the time like she's a 4 yr old. i love her and i trust her.
but she cant seem to do the same for me. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> its crappy, shes hurt me quite a bit saying some of the stuff she has and she cant get her head round the idea i can love another girl as a mate.
any suggestions as to what i can say/do??? nefin???? i will try and sort this out, but im just asking if theres anything new that i havent tried before etc
we aint been going out long, but we were seeing each other for about a month before we did go out. in that time we got close and shes like a best mate to me now as well as a girlfriend...i really dont wanna lose her and i think if i did lose her she would be seen as over reacting somewhat, but i just wanted to see if anyone else thought id done something wrong??
Death is one of the few things that can be done as easily lying down. The difference between sex and death is that with death you can do it alone and no one is going to make fun of you
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Good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
It matters not who won or lost, but how you place the blame.
LOVE IS VERY HARD TO FIND. SOME PEOPLE DIE ALONE, STILL LOOKING FOR IT. WHEN U FIND IT, KEEP IT!!!!