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wots wrong w me!!

hey every1,

i get along gr8 with guyz n have had quite sum bf's but (this may sound slutty) i neav ACTAULLY *liked* them...i mean i liked them but not that special like..so i dump them n they get upset so i just say no...n im starting 2 ask myself y im not finding myself really interested in any of these guyz... n im sooooo afraid of becumin lez, i no this sounds stupid but id hate 2 be lez AND NOT THAT I HAVE ANYTHNG *AT ALL* AGAINST HOMOSEXUALS OK!!! i just really dont want 2 be one..i no i sound immature but its the thruth...am i being pathetic..i no i am lol but too pathetic?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Try not to look upon each relationship as your final chance ever to meet that someone special. Before I met my g/f, I thought that time was running out etc (I'm only 17 now) and stupid things like that, which made relationships with girls very akward to say the least.

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with you from what I can see, you just have to take a more relaxed approach to relationships. Go out, have a laugh, get to know people, but dont feel that you HAVE to find someone special straight away, you've got your whole life ahead of you.

    Its easy for me to say, but trust me I've been there. Yes I have found the special sumone, but every1 is different, and do things at different paces. Just relax, and whether it be in 5 days or 5 years, you will meet that special someone.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're obviously a good looking girl or you wouldnt have had so many boyfriends.

    Trust me, a person you like will come along.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    you dont BECOME lesbian. you either *ARE* or you're *NOT*. its whether you fancy women or not. not whether you just dont fancy the blokes you've been out with.

    just go out with the ones you like, not the rest. you're only young, you'll find someone you like who likes you back sooner or later.

    Out of my mind. Back in five minutes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hinny:
    You're obviously a good looking girl or you wouldnt have had so many boyfriends.

    Trust me, a person you like will come along.

    totally agree! give it time.

    its not illegal til u get caught :P
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You've probably just been out with the wrong kinda guys in the past.

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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Originally posted by Welsh Dragon:
    Try not to look upon each relationship as your final chance ever to meet that someone special. Before I met my g/f, I thought that time was running out etc (I'm only 17 now) and stupid things like that, which made relationships with girls very akward to say the least.

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with you from what I can see, you just have to take a more relaxed approach to relationships. Go out, have a laugh, get to know people, but dont feel that you HAVE to find someone special straight away, you've got your whole life ahead of you.

    Its easy for me to say, but trust me I've been there. Yes I have found the special sumone, but every1 is different, and do things at different paces. Just relax, and whether it be in 5 days or 5 years, you will meet that special someone.


    I would tell you what I think, but Im gonna take the lazy way out and just quote this.
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