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Shes screwing up my life.

JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
*THIS IS THE THREAD I MENTIONED IN LJ*

where to start..Laura

Shes making mine and Clarks life hell. Shes a slut who backstabs, screws peoples lifes up, a sell out, and worst of all I fancy her.

This is a small! list of the things shes done to piss me off in the last month or so.

PROBLEM: Told Vicky that I dont like her, and that I think shes a slapper etc
WHAT HAPPENED:A good friendship down the pan, thanks to Laura. Vicky Ignoring my texts, Laura and Vicky get closer.

Sends messages to Clarks Ex. Causing fights and spreading lies to her.
Clark and me not talking to Laura, Clark telling his ex. he wasnt doign anything with anyone else, me getting phonecalls from hius ex. at 3am in tears.

Talks out of her arse to Mel
Yeah, I helped Mel the best i could while she was badly depressed. Laura caused the trouble. So Mels ignoring me and sending abusive messages, Laura and Mel getting on.

SLUT!

In the last 3 days of school, She let Tom strip her half naked in Tech. Let Daz, Clark, ME!, Gav, Rinda, Robert, Dom and Kevin touch her up, kiss her, etc.

there is loads more but these are just a few. I've told everyone what shes doing but they dont seem to be listening, while my mates are falling for it, and ignoring me.


But what can I do? She wont tell me why shes doing this, what for, and what i've done to deserve it. worse still, I fancy the arse of her!

Need a bit of help with this one people!


Remember: i before e except in Budweiser

I am the true Yorkshireman

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    one question...

    without meaning to be dumb

    WHAT EXACTLY IS IT U LIKE ABOUT HER!?

    LOL!

    Lxxx


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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Originally posted by lurvlylucy:
    one question...

    without meaning to be dumb

    WHAT EXACTLY IS IT U LIKE ABOUT HER!?

    LOL!

    Lxxx



    Which is one of the major problems!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im going to be honest, people may not like it but thats life.

    if she likes attention, play dangerously, get with her. only half naked? go for *naked* in tech and see what she does. if she reacts to it, then she'll enjoy it. get with her, fuck her if ya like...then chuck her away.

    ..."and now you know how it feels". <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; love that line, gets them everytime. treat others as you yourself have been treated. its basically revenge. probably evil, but if you can get support from it then go for it.

    ˆMấ§ŧế®° <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.contrabandent.com/pez/games/poke/005.gif"&gt; ¤ĐєvĩŁĩ§Ħ¤™
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    U could take MD's advice and use her b4 she has a chance to do it to u or whatever, but personally I dont even think u should do that!

    My advice would be to keep reminding yourself each time u think u fancy her, that u have respect for yourself and wont undermine yourself by giving this girl what she wants (and seems to get as well)...a shag!

    It just seems pointless to me to even bother shagging her and using her just so she wont have the chance and u can show her how it feels...my bet is she wont give a crap anyway as she clearly dont have much self respect or morals (usually this is a sign of someone who feels worthless and insecure).

    U r worth more than just another one of her shags or little games and its pretty likely she will treat u much the same as the other blokes b4 u. so have some will power and dont even bother with her at all...even though u may fancy her its inevitable that its gonna end in tears somwehere along the line if u r wanting more than just a shag with this girl, and I totally dont mean that rudely but due to the fact she seems only to want one thing!

    Not only that but she is clearly a destructive person and Ive come across quite a few of this type b4. She seems to fuck up everyone elses relationships etc in order to make herself look better and get closer to certain people.

    She is potentially dangerous and destructive, which is interesting when u look at the fact u still fancy her despite knowing this.

    Just thinking here but r your past relationships destructive ones? I know with me that always been the case and from the start I am aware the person is dangerous etc but I still let myself like them and if Im really stupid I end up with them!

    The result is me being left a state and feeling crap about myself even more than usual. Ive only just opened my eyes to the fact Im aware from the start that the bloke is bad news and Im still wanting to be with them!

    Now Im trying to figure it all out in my head Im noticing how little we must think of ourselves if we know from the start we will end up hurt but still we go ahead...not good really. Sorry for going off on one just thinking out load really lol!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This girl seems a little messed up mentally, it looks like she probably suffers from low self esteem and she feels worthless. So instead of stopping her own hurt, she tries to destroy everyone elses happiness. try and leave well alone.

    It matters not who won or lost, but how you place the blame.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Shag her up the bum and then walk away dude!!!

    Never piss into the wind!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/cool7.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree with md - she uses u u use her!

    its not illegal til u get caught :P
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Shagging her aint gonna work, I think we're both probably a bit young. Dont think she'd be quiet that slut-ish anyway
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by JsT:
    Dont think she'd be quiet that slut-ish anyway

    exactly, so go for it and watch her look stupid as she's all mouth and does it for attention

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tongue:
    Shag her up the bum and then walk away dude!!!


    Very good advice Tongue. Ruin her from behind, cum all over her arse then zip up and walk away!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    exactly, so go for it and watch her look stupid as she's all mouth and does it for attention



    This is what it might appear to look like, however if u maybe thought about it a bit more u would see that this girl probably has a serious issue with how much she thinks of herself.

    Also the need for male attention is most likely due to getting none anywhere else and wanting people to like her, or completely the opposite and a result of too much attention from men in some form (ie abuse, coz u never no for sure that its not).

    Behaviour like this girls is in response to something not being right in her life...even attention seekers do what they do for a reason and if more people looked into it a bit more maybe they would be able to actually help the person instead of mess everything up for them even more!

    She hasnt done anything bad enough to get a bloke have sex with her purely to make her feel used and shit about herself...what kind of bloke does it make u to think this is an answer to whats gone on???
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lolly:

    This is what it might appear to look like, however if u maybe thought about it a bit more u would see that this girl probably has a serious issue with how much she thinks of herself.

    Also the need for male attention is most likely due to getting none anywhere else and wanting people to like her, or completely the opposite and a result of too much attention from men in some form (ie abuse, coz u never no for sure that its not).

    Behaviour like this girls is in response to something not being right in her life...even attention seekers do what they do for a reason and if more people looked into it a bit more maybe they would be able to actually help the person instead of mess everything up for them even more!

    She hasnt done anything bad enough to get a bloke have sex with her purely to make her feel used and shit about herself...what kind of bloke does it make u to think this is an answer to whats gone on???

    exactly!!!
    youre all cuthroat pigs <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    seriously tho underneath all of this she could still be a good person at heart, im not sayin dive in and try to sort everyfin, but its best not to go out on a mission to hurt her <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lolly is right, "using her before she uses you" aint EVER the right ay to go about stuff. Therell be a prob somewhere in her life for her to do this (the biggest bitches/sluts are often the most insecure), just leave well alone.

    It matters not who won or lost, but how you place the blame.
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