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New article in Relationships section: http://ned.thesite.org.uk//relationships/lovelife/move_in_or_move_on.html

How many of our users live with their boyfriend/girlfriend?

What are your views about it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think if i moved in with a boyf they would really annoy me and i would end up wanting to kill them!! I used to live with my ex every weekend and two days was enough of him. I spose if I was to find the right man i'd love to live with him though! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My parents went away on holiday for 2 weeks just recently & my bf stayed wit me the whole 2 weeks.

    We both enjoyed it & he said if he had enough money he would buy a place of his own 4 us 2 live in together!! LOL.

    Personally, even though the 2 weeks woz good & the week i had on holiday wit him woz good, i don't think i'd be ready 2 move in full time wit him yet! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Now there's some scary timing, my lady's just started dropping hints about moving in together. Too soon after 1 year or not?? I dunno.

    I'm not sure how well we'd live together to be honest, she's very tidy and scarily organised, whereas I'm a typical male slob. I also get EXTREMELY ratty if I don't get my private contemplation time.

    I've lived with one of my ex-g/f's before, it was great fun and a good experience, but somewhat ruined by me getting made redundant, the landlord and estate agents both being complete ****s, and the fact she had to fly back to the US.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I used to live with my, now ex, boyfriend. We moved in after about 3 months, which i know was far too soon but it's too late knowing now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

    Anyway, it was alright for a while but then his true psycho personality came through and he used to wake me up in the middle of the night and tell me he'd drank a pint of bleach and stuff. He was a fucking nutter of the highest degree. To say the least.

    I wouldn't move in with a future boyfriend so quickly.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Funny this has comne up now coz my sister has just split from her boyf of 4 years after moving in with each other less than a month ago...sometimes I think living with your boyf/girlf is what makes u realise if its gonna work or not...and also Id like to add that I dont live with anyone partner wise and I feel soprry for anyone who might decide to live with me coz Im a nightmare to live with lmfao!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Lolly, it must be difficult to live with someone who's arse so consistantly comes off.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Oh, and I'll throw this question open to everyone, should I move in with my lady??

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Did it once. Great to have sex whenever you want, but complete pain. I found you need somewhere to retreat to and have some time on your own.

    I'd say to anyone seriously think about it before moving in with someone. If you need your own space or somewhere to get away from them DON'T DO IT!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lord of Little:

    Lolly, it must be difficult to live with someone who's arse so consistantly comes off.

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    well exactly, glad u see where Im coming from lmfao (there it goes again). Whats worse is the fact the Liams arse has started doing it too and Im finding that lately I seem to be constantly changing his bum (get it pahahahaha...nappy, changing bum...ok so it was a bad one lol).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Your place must be consistantly filled with the sound of laughter and the *thud* of ass hitting floor.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lord of Little:

    Oh, and I'll throw this question open to everyone, should I move in with my lady??

    Think long and hard about it mate........it's funny how "our" space turns into "my" or "your" space.........nightmare!!



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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Dragon:
    Did it once. Great to have sex whenever you want, but complete pain. I found you need somewhere to retreat to and have some time on your own.

    I'd say to anyone seriously think about it before moving in with someone. If you need your own space or somewhere to get away from them DON'T DO IT!!

    Ain't that the truth!!



    Never piss into the wind!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/cool7.gif"&gt;
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