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Meeting girls

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Where's the best place to meet peole / girls when your'e not into clubbing or going down the pub every night?

Uni was a great way of meeting people, but I left almost a couple of years ago and am currently unemployed so I've got nowhere to go to meet people!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The job centre?

    I've met previous b/f's in bars or through friends. If one of your friends has a girlfriend, get them to introduce their friends. In the summer you can hang about in parks and meet people. or you could try internet.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Go to the gym? or take up some kind of sport?

    You might of seen this round town, I've noticed loads of these posters on the back of buses lately....for a club called Pursuits I think, it's for single people or couples and they organise loads of sports and activities etc. They have a website but I can't remember the url, but I'm sure you'd be able to find it on google. Or just go down the bus station and have a look hehe
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm, tricky one really. how about joining up for a college course or something? Just take something you're interested in and make friends there first and work from there?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wherever your interests take you- I know people whove met girls at football matches, on long train journeys, even in supermarket queues. If youre not looking they tend to come and find you in the most unexpected places.

    If youre on the net a lot thats not such a bad pulling ground either, until you discover teh girl you like the look of lives in Bulgaria or somewhere *sigh*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go out with your friends, make a point of having a get together, even if its just dinner or bowling or something, get them to invite their friends, there you go meeting new people and then they have friends....

    you could always get someone to set you up with a friend of theirs! just make a point of socialising and itll come easily!:)
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