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Orgasms

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
right stright to the point. when i was with my g/f last nite and i was fingering her and rubbing her clit, we were kissing each other most the time, and her legs were like tremberling and she had trouble standing up, having to put on hand on a wall to keep her balance. she was like shaking and breathing heaverly. and i was wondering if she was close to orgasm, cos when we stopped kissing but i was still rubbing her shed put her head on my shoulder and catch her breath and look worn out. also i think a few times she nearly climaxed, but she just burst out laughing, cos she was shaking so much and breathing heaverly, then shed just burst out laughing and i was wondering if this was her way of stopping herslf going ober the edge (rents down stairs *L*) do any other girls do that to stop themselves or something similar? and also do u think she was cumming or enjoying herslef or not?
Adam Drake

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't take the laughing thing personally! My guess is that she's dead nervous as well as enjoying herself! If she has trouble standing up, then try it with her sitting/laying on the bed. It's a lot easier to come if you're relaxed. It sounds like she did have an orgasm, but their different with different people. Some people don't make a sound and others scream blue murder! Did you actually ASK her?? That's always a good move!

    *|* Chica *|*


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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i didnt take the laughing personally, just wondered what it ment, cos she woudlnt say why she was laughing, nd i doubt shed be laughing at me, cos she looked like she enjoyed herself. i duno if she did orgasm she might have once or twice thats why she stopped kissing, but she was tremeberling a lot of the time, when i was rubbing her clit the most
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    she was well on the way to a full on orgasm. Some girls do laugh when they come-I've met a few that do. There are 3 types of orgasm-Positive, Negative, and Religious. The positive people tend to scream "oh yes"when they have an orgasm, whereasthe Negatives yell "Oh no" over and over again.The religious are actually the most common, with their characteristic squeals of "OH MY GOD!!!"

    Note:these orgasmic styles can be combined e.g."OH GOD YES!!!!"

    hope I solved that riddle for you.

    PS. the wobbling legs thing was a sign of an incoming orgasm also-why else would they call a quickie a knee trembler for god's sake??!!

    come on ladies, email me on gt2masta@hotmail.com !!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds like you were doing exactly the right thing - just bad positioning!
    try different stances in future, and just wait and see what will happen!!
    Like everyone has said, people orgasm in different ways, and hey practice makes perfect I'm sure she won't complain!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    practice does make perfect, but we guys need to be told how to practice! it is remarkable the number opf men who think they know how to give her good oral sex but in fact haven't a clue!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tell me about it arnesh!!!!!
    Practise does NOT make perfect though sometimes!!! One bloke i was with, i know he has slept about, A LOT, and he didnt have a clue, but another, i think i was his first,either that or one of them, and he was AMAZING!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have a spot on my clitoris where it feels like i am getting an electric shock or something if I get touched on it while im horny. One of my boyfriends used to rub me really hard on it because I used to moan when ever he got me there. He thought I was orgasming and I always used to end up laughing because he was o enthusiastic and thought he was doin really well when really he was just hurting me.

    Im sure your girlfriends not doing that to you though I just thought Id share my story
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