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101 ways to please your partner without sex
Girl-From-Mars
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these are from a website i came across, and they're taken from a page at Duke University (im presuming america here!!). ignore the ones you dont get, coz i dont either!
Burn baby burn!
Eat Ben and Jerry's ice cream • share a tent • leave a rose on their car • skip classes together • go running • give them breakfast in bed • give each other a massage • take shag classes • make a mixed tape • bake them cookies • give each other butterfly kisses • wait in line for basketball tickets • canoe at the Lake • drink champagne in the gardens • bowl • camp at the National Forest • wash each other's hair • go to the top of the chapel tower • share a lollipop • sing to each other • go somewhere special and take pictures together • blow bubbles • share fantasies • suck on their toes • cover each other in chocolate and lick it off • compliment them • have a snowball fight • blindfold them and lead them on a trust walk • hot tub • shower together • go to a film show • respect yourself • play one-on-one in the park • road trip to Busch Gardens • play lap tag • take a class together • pass notes during class • go to the park and listen to bands • go mountain biking through a forest • play in the woods • surprise them with dinner in the library • make out in the stacks (library basement) • tuck each other into bed • take social dance classes • spend the whole day in bed • take care of each other when you are sick • put your perfume on their pillow • hold hands • do laundry together • send each other a package • send them a note through the express mail • play kissing tag • work out together • snuggle • learn to read each other's mind • read erotic poetry • tie each other's shoe laces • respect each other • leave notes on their noteboard • do favors for each other • make a collage together • learn Tae-Kwon-Do • be honest with each other • do classes together • read each other's palm • rent movies and cry together • wrestle • take a bubble bath • cut each other's hair • slow dance • star gaze in the stadium • put a note in their notebook • do the ropes course • picnic at the gazebo • take a walk • play in the mud • put love letters in their underwear drawer • flirt • wear sexy lingerie • say I love you • put a personal in the newspaper • have a candle light dinner • give each other a hug • consider mutual masturbation • run in the rain • look at baby pictures • nibble on their ear • give each other a hickey • make chocolate fondue • go horseback riding • study together • give them a piggy-back ride • spend the weekend at the beach • send each other E-mail
In other words.....be loving, and act like you care about your lover, sex partner, friend, affair....or whatever....
Burn baby burn!
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Now am I the only one here who thinks this could lead to other things, sounds like physical contact and not really a very non-physical form of pleasing a partner...
Having said that, I'm all for lap tag, sounds like good fun to me! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
ah well, it was late, i was tired, i found it, i posted it! lol
Burn baby burn!
I thoud I saw a puddycat, I did, I did see a puddycat!!
mutual masturbation.. well its when each of you finger the other/masturbate them, at the same time. well thats my understanding of it!
Burn baby burn!
BaRt
Anyone who isn't pulling their weight is probably pushing their luck
LOL gud idea bart!
Who said anything about no physical contact. The post was '101 ways to please your partner without sex. technically, mutual masturbation isn`t sex.
"Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
oh the pain... *moves along gingerly to the next post..*
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
~ Nietzsche
take shag classes
I have a funny story about this one.
I moved to the US when I was 13, I was still young and innocent, never even properly dated anyone. I was talking with this guy (a very nerdy guy, very very very christian, the last one I would think would talk about anything dirty), and he asked me if I knew how to shag. I was shocked (shag meaning sex to my english ears). He got really confused, and had no idea why I'd be shocked... it turns out there's something called shag dancing here in NC.
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
~ Nietzsche
Yeah, wasn't there a film starring Jonny Depp?
Wonder how many 13 yr old rented that from the video store expecting porn?
Oh, by the was guys (guess this includes me)
Dude. Post. Dead
"Liberty lost still buried today
Beneath the lie of the USA"
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
~ Nietzsche