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older man
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hey ppl i have a slight problem, right there is this man and he is maybe bout 14 or 15 years older than me and whenever i see him he does nothing but flirt with me and the problem is i flirt back, i know i shouldnt but im a terrible flirt. the thing is now he is saying that he really fancies me and wants to show me how he feels the next time he gets me alone and i dont know wot to do. i dont really want anything to happen cos well for a start he is probably way more experienced than i am and also cos of the age difference. have any of u girls ever went with an older man and if so was it any good? also what should i do about this?
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When I was 16 I went out with a guy who was 36, he was my superior at my work experience placement. I felt sooooo flattered to be chatted up by & asked out by a guy who was so much older than me.
Well, we went out one evening and I realised what a complete wally he was. I realised then, that he only went for me because he couldn't get anyone of his own age-group. & his name was Alec Bumstead (roflol).
That kind of age gap at that age was rediculous I now know, but it was fun at first.
Now I'm much older, the age gap isn't so relevant. My husband is 15 years older than me, but it really doesn't matter. It's really not about the age gap, but more about interests, upbringing & background.
j9
but he was a total complete utter waster of time and a user n grr dont get me started.
Some older men take the piss outta u cos ur younger.