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feeling shite
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is it normal to feel like crap after just dumping your bf?
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Yes, completely. *hugs* you can PM me if you need to talk
Take it from me, Just go and get friendly with someone else...thats what i did and now i feel so much better
If that doesn't work, just keep yourself very occupied, anything that takes your mind off him
Jez
It's hard to get closure from these types of situations; because to start with it was you with the power who instigated the breakup, and you think you can take it back. But it doesn't work from that.
What you have to realise is that this relationship is over. It looks like he's started his own 'healing process' - getting over you. Maybe you should start yours as well. If you go back to the same relationship you'll also be going back to the same arguments, the same problems that made you want to break up with him.
just because you don't want to be with him anymore doesn't mean you've stopped feeling anything at all towards him.
when i went to see my ex for the last time to tell him it was over, i cried all the way there and all the way back.
and i felt awful for weeks afterwards, although i knew i'd done the right thing, i just felt so odd, and lonely.
you have to get used to it being just you again, and that can take time.
i have to agree with what everyone said, this is totally normal. when i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years, i was really gutted and even though it would have been so easy to give in and just get back together it would never have been the right thing cos i knew deep down that we werent meant for each other, it will take time but you'll realise a bit down the line that it was probably for the best, if not its like they say if its meant to be...
hope you feel better!
Just give yourself time to get over him and take things slow.
Hope you feel better soon
*hugs*