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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hmm something that has always puzzled me with people... is how they bully people for being ginger... and the whole ginger pubes thing....

Well i was just wondering peoples views are here... on what they think of redheads or why they think people make jokes about it...

I personally i find most (not all <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">) redhead girls sexy, i dont claim to find ginger pubes a turn on... im indifferent to it, it neither turns me on or off... pubes are pubes <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Oh one thing though, ive never found it sexy in guys, although i wouldnt not go out with a guy just because he had ginger hair, its just i dont find it especially sexy...

But anyway people views please <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry, but hair colour has got to be one of the most shallow reasons anyone could use as a basis for choosing a partner.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *refrains from commenting just yet*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Clandestine, you have completely miss understood me... I am in no way a shallow person, but like with many things in life there are turn ons and turn offs, and thats all i was interested in.

    I have never ever gone out with someone on the basis of how they look, that really is the truth, i am normally the one in the conversation with people that says "yeah but what about her personality".

    I just wanted to make that clear, i dont want to know whether you would want to go out with someone on the basis of their eye colour, hair colour, skin colour i just want to know if its a turn on turn off.

    <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Sorry about the misunderstanding.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, I am a redhead (ginger, or whatever you like to call it) and in my experience people (usually children) take the piss because we're slightly different. Or should I say, try to take the piss.
    On the other hand, men tend to love ladies with long red hair so Ha! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    As for the whole pubes thing, I don't think they're any less attractive for being red. I mean, if someone likes red hair, they're gonna like red hair! (If you know what I mean <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it is very immature and pathetic, i agree, but dont you hate the way ginger/redhead people seem to have virtually flawless complexions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Malachi, apologies if my previous post seemed to be aimed at you personally. i was simply commenting on the shallowness of judging a potential partner on the basis of hair colour.

    I would suppose that most guys and girls would be attracted to the overall appearance first (face, body, etc.) and then once attracted would hopefully strengthen the relationship on the basis of personality and character.

    But for all those redheads out there who need some moral support just remember the old saying: "Red in the head, Fire in the bed" hehe.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ginger girls have Ginger pubes? <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    *sigh*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Sorry if i got all defensive Clandestine i just didnt want you think of me as shallow... Most if not all my relationships start off as friendship then progress...

    Hehe <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Yes Wee Man, i know it amazes me too :P... hehe.

    KinkyRed, i like your name <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">, and i agree men do tend to love it. Its really refreshing and good to be different <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Thanks for everyones replys <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">... although no ones offered their opinions on guys...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks Malachi!
    You wanted to know about ginger men, well, I have a friend who once hooked up with a ginger man, and she was all set to go down on him, but when she got there she just couldn't do it because of his ginger pubes <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> . Not that I'm condoning this in anyway & the poor guy must've felt terrible but I can't help thinking "well what the hell did she expect?"

    leese - would it make you feel any better if I said that I am prone to excema & therefore must work very hard at keeping a half way decent complexion (that then only burns at the first sniff of sun)?

    [ 21-05-2002: Message edited by: KinkyRed ]

    [ 21-05-2002: Message edited by: KinkyRed ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    teehee - you have no idea!! Myself, & a few other red-heads I know (don't ask me how I know) each have 1 black pube.
    Freaky or what?
    I guess it's like black-haired men often have ginger beards

    [ 21-05-2002: Message edited by: KinkyRed ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LoL... Worrying how you know that though KinkyRed <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Hehe, well after yesterday when i spent the day with my friend, ive kinda begun to like ginger pubes, they are unique, and your right it would really look very wrong if they were any other colour hehe <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">.

    It really is quite funny about your friend and the Ginger guy, im quite confused though, did she not expect it ? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> hehe <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    She must have expected it - but I don't think she was ready for the reality of it! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Bless her she was quite young at the time.

    As for the peculiar single black pube thing - that'd be drunken conversations - sorry to ruin whatever image you had in your mind <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gingers are horrible! Urgh!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hehe... KinkyRed... ever tried to pluck it :P :P
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Malachi - I'm either an imac or a razor girl myself <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Bangkok Chick Boy - somehow methinks you are no oil painting yourself!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What makes you say that, notKinkyRed?!?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    'cause you're stereotyping ginger peeps - that makes you an ugly person in my book <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol! Nah, they just don't do anything for me! Nothing personnal!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fair dos - in that case, on offence intended <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    (ooh, & btw, I am rather kinky)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Really?!?! How kinky exactly???
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not that you'd be interested, as my hair is red, but quite a lot thanks for asking.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well it depends how red your red hair is. People like Isla Fisher (she used to be in Home and Away) I find quite sexy. There are some red heads that I like. How red is ur hair?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my hair isn't THAT red (a bizarre fit of honesty here), it has streaks of gold and in some lights it actually looks kind of blonde - think more Nicole Kidman's natural colour, than Isla Fischer
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I must say, you sound very nice!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    [blush] why thankyou! I'm sure you're lovely too
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my girlfriend's got gorgeous strawberry hair. it looks great, it catches the light and she catches my heart and imagination too. There's nothing sexier. Especially when she's in one of her moody poses. Hands on hips! She drives me crackers <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    As for pubic hair, colour doesnt bother me atall, you like it for the person it belongs too, not for the colour. or maybe thats just me? I do seem to prefer straight pubic hair to curly though, more fun to stroke!

    Why do people have to call red heads ginger? have you ever seen a ginger route? its goldy brown, not orange or red. it sounds offensive and i dont like it. Red heads are special. It's like left handers, they're a bit rarer so its nice to have something a little different! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mancmanomyst - I think that sums it up really. There's not much else to say on the topic - redheads i mean. I've never met your girlfriend
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mancmanomyst you've said everything i was trying to, hehe <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">, i didnt mean to cause offensive... i to prefere refering to the hair colour as Redheads <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">...

    Hehe
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Malachi:
    <STRONG>mancmanomyst you've said everything i was trying to, hehe <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">, i didnt mean to cause offensive... i to prefere refering to the hair colour as Redheads <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">...

    Hehe</STRONG>

    ive killed the conversation then???? sorry

    its not easy being right all the time (thats a joke, dont shout)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think people tend to not like ginger haired people because they stand out. therefore, if someone goes out with someone with ginger hair they think they are going to get laughed at etc. This is mainly the case in high school etc. As people grow up they realise that hair colour isn't everything and that they're just like everyone else. (hope i haven't offened anyone, i'm just trying to be realistic)

    A mate of mine learnt this not so long ago. She used to take the piss out of ginger haired people big time. The rest of us were ashamed to be around her when she made fun of people because we didn't understand what she had against them. One day we confronted her and she didn't have an answer at all. A few months later she started seeing a lad who had blondish coloured hair. When his routes started to come through she realised that he was infact ginger but didn't split up with him because she'd got to know him. It just goes to show that you shouldn't judge someone just because of how they look.
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