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Hmm something that has always puzzled me with people... is how they bully people for being ginger... and the whole ginger pubes thing....
Well i was just wondering peoples views are here... on what they think of redheads or why they think people make jokes about it...
I personally i find most (not all <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">) redhead girls sexy, i dont claim to find ginger pubes a turn on... im indifferent to it, it neither turns me on or off... pubes are pubes <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Oh one thing though, ive never found it sexy in guys, although i wouldnt not go out with a guy just because he had ginger hair, its just i dont find it especially sexy...
But anyway people views please <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">.....
Well i was just wondering peoples views are here... on what they think of redheads or why they think people make jokes about it...
I personally i find most (not all <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">) redhead girls sexy, i dont claim to find ginger pubes a turn on... im indifferent to it, it neither turns me on or off... pubes are pubes <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Oh one thing though, ive never found it sexy in guys, although i wouldnt not go out with a guy just because he had ginger hair, its just i dont find it especially sexy...
But anyway people views please <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">.....
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I have never ever gone out with someone on the basis of how they look, that really is the truth, i am normally the one in the conversation with people that says "yeah but what about her personality".
I just wanted to make that clear, i dont want to know whether you would want to go out with someone on the basis of their eye colour, hair colour, skin colour i just want to know if its a turn on turn off.
<IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Sorry about the misunderstanding.
On the other hand, men tend to love ladies with long red hair so Ha! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
As for the whole pubes thing, I don't think they're any less attractive for being red. I mean, if someone likes red hair, they're gonna like red hair! (If you know what I mean <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">)
I would suppose that most guys and girls would be attracted to the overall appearance first (face, body, etc.) and then once attracted would hopefully strengthen the relationship on the basis of personality and character.
But for all those redheads out there who need some moral support just remember the old saying: "Red in the head, Fire in the bed" hehe.
*sigh*
Hehe <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Yes Wee Man, i know it amazes me too :P... hehe.
KinkyRed, i like your name <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">, and i agree men do tend to love it. Its really refreshing and good to be different <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Thanks for everyones replys <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">... although no ones offered their opinions on guys...
You wanted to know about ginger men, well, I have a friend who once hooked up with a ginger man, and she was all set to go down on him, but when she got there she just couldn't do it because of his ginger pubes <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> . Not that I'm condoning this in anyway & the poor guy must've felt terrible but I can't help thinking "well what the hell did she expect?"
leese - would it make you feel any better if I said that I am prone to excema & therefore must work very hard at keeping a half way decent complexion (that then only burns at the first sniff of sun)?
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Freaky or what?
I guess it's like black-haired men often have ginger beards
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Hehe, well after yesterday when i spent the day with my friend, ive kinda begun to like ginger pubes, they are unique, and your right it would really look very wrong if they were any other colour hehe <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">.
It really is quite funny about your friend and the Ginger guy, im quite confused though, did she not expect it ? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> hehe <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
As for the peculiar single black pube thing - that'd be drunken conversations - sorry to ruin whatever image you had in your mind <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Bangkok Chick Boy - somehow methinks you are no oil painting yourself!
(ooh, & btw, I am rather kinky)
As for pubic hair, colour doesnt bother me atall, you like it for the person it belongs too, not for the colour. or maybe thats just me? I do seem to prefer straight pubic hair to curly though, more fun to stroke!
Why do people have to call red heads ginger? have you ever seen a ginger route? its goldy brown, not orange or red. it sounds offensive and i dont like it. Red heads are special. It's like left handers, they're a bit rarer so its nice to have something a little different! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Hehe
ive killed the conversation then???? sorry
its not easy being right all the time (thats a joke, dont shout)
A mate of mine learnt this not so long ago. She used to take the piss out of ginger haired people big time. The rest of us were ashamed to be around her when she made fun of people because we didn't understand what she had against them. One day we confronted her and she didn't have an answer at all. A few months later she started seeing a lad who had blondish coloured hair. When his routes started to come through she realised that he was infact ginger but didn't split up with him because she'd got to know him. It just goes to show that you shouldn't judge someone just because of how they look.