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Jazmyn had an accident tuesday morning, in the car. Someone smashed into the side of her. they said she's going to be in surgery for another few hours, and that we should come home and get some things. i shouldnt have come home. my partner has gone to his mums to get some of his things, and i've gotten some of our things, but by the time he gets back here to pick me up, and we've gotten back to the hospital, its going to be 1.30. i cant believe what ive done, i should be there with her, she needs me, i need her, they said theyd call but i shouldnt be here, what sort of a person am i? what sort of a person am i to come home when i should be there with her? i need her, i should be there, im so ashamed of myself, i shouldnt be here
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a headless chicken kind of person at the moment which is very understandable under the circumstances. hope all works out ok. stop condemning yourself. take a few deep breaths and get back there.
My wishes and thoughts are with you
xxx
take it easy (easier said than done, i know) there is nothing you can do at the hospital while she's in surgery except panic. hope it all works out ok. let us know how jazmyn gets on. xxx
And what good could you do there??? You'd be there for her for what reason? She's in surgery. She can't see you, speak to you, touch you, or feel you, and vice versa.
Stop beating yourself up about it.
You're doing the sensible thing by going home and gather up some of the things that you, and her, will need when she does come out of surgery and wakes up. Thing from home, her things. Thing that will make it feel less stressful and traumatic for her. Things that will make her feel better.
And you're keeping yourself occupied. What would you be doing at the hospital? Sitting around fretting. You're doing the right, sensible, thing. And you'll be back there with plenty of time to see her when she comes out of surgery, and when she wakes up.
Of course, you won't read this for some time, but you did the right thing.
Hope she's doing well.
Mr_Wobble
Wish you all the best of luck through this time.
Best of luck with it all & i hope you & your little girl are ok. *Hugs*
Best of luck, hope everything goes well again!
p.s i hope to beat the fuck outta the driver in the other car!
hope youre both alright.
No Kat, don't do anything stupid and rash like this, just make sure that when she is finished in surgery, that you are there for her.
Good Luck
And FFS Karma Killer if you were being serious, then you are an idiot, and if you were joking, it really isn't appropriate.:mad:
it was an accident. your going to beat up the little old lady to make badda feel better?
your in my prayers baddabing.
ok fair point, your right there.. but when she said it i automatically saw it being some stupid 18 year old boy racer rushing to get to his g/f's house cause he wants to spend some "quality" time with her... sorry rolly, point taken but i may be right... and if i am he deserves it! if not and it was an accident then my comment to you is simply "smart arse"
Jazmyn is now out of surgery and awake. shes doing well and apparently shes going to be fine, shes just got to heal and recover. Hopefully she will be back home in a few days (hopefully in time for christmas) They managed to stop the internal bleeding quite quickly, but shes got a broken arm, leg and rib
thanks again for all your messages, and hopefully we should be back home for christmas, as long as she stays stable
if she's not out for xmas the good news is that father xmas knows where the hospital is. he always pops in. it's great ...you actualy get to see him with loads of other kids instead of him sneaking through your house while your asleep!
you must be feeling immense relief ...
Susie xxx