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bloody hell.


Ok, when I started college I was really looking 4 a bloke, I was really unsucessful & ended up feeling crap.

Anyway, I've changed since then, only now I'm starting to have admirers and it's annoying because I don't have the same feelings 4 them & I feel bad about letting them down.

I mean, why is it that they fancy me when I'm so obviously not flirting???
Shit, why can't they fancy my m8s? they're prettier, smarter & got better personalities than me.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Awww I wouldnt worry too much. A few days ago, i let things get on top of me, but I've learnt to relax and let things happen, anyway never mind that.....

    The law of averages means that at some point, u r bound to meet sum1 that you click with soon. It all takes time. It would be worse if you didnt have any admirers at all, its just so happened that the admirers so far, arent for you. Dont worry and let things happen naturally, its the best way to go about things ive found.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's always the way aint it? maybe guys r attracted to girls who don't try too hard?
    Originally posted by ~*LIBERTY*~:
    Shit, why can't they fancy my m8s? they're prettier, smarter & got better personalities than me.

    I'm sure that is not true. Everyone is beautiful in one way or another <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Chin up chuck.


    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Know what you mean there! I have a couple of admirers who I can't shake, they're lovely in their own way but not that way!
    I try to let them down gently, but I know how they feel, it's horrible to like someone and they don't feel the same way.

    And as for your idea that all your mates are prettier etc, I'm sure you're just suffering from a lack of self esteem! if these guys like you and not them then that proves it?
    chin up!
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