just been dumped

Former Member

I just checked my email to find my b/f of 6 weeks has dumped me.
The big thing is that I wanted him for so long, and I don't know how I'm going to get over him.
He still wants to be friends but I just don't know how I can talk to him now, cuz I still have all these feelings for him and I know all I want is to get back together with him.
I really don't know how I'm going to get over him either..

Former Member

what a bender for sending u an email, saying that u were dumped, was it an e-greetings, how could people even make an e-greetings saying u r dumped, how funny. sounds like a coward if he cant dump u to ur face. fuck him, fuck the world!

Former Member

Yeah its not a good way to dump sum1, via email that is.

In time u will get over him, every single time i've been dumped ive felt the way u feel, and it just takes time.

Hang on in there babe.....

Former Member

thanks!
I originally signed up on this board cos I was worried that he was going to drop me.
I was feeling insecure, and now it seems with good reason

wish it could stop hurting though.. :'-(

Girl-From-Mars

i know how you feel babe behind the bar <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

dumping someone by email or over the internet IS the coward's way out. but i guess he could have his reasons... sometimes its just too hard to do it any other way, like if he still has feelings for you and has some other reason to end it... what WAS the reason?

i know its hard now... as much as you dont think it possible, im sure you will get over this guy. maybe it a good idea not to see him for a while to try and sort your feelings out, coz its pretty much impossible tryign to be friends with someone you still want to be with whos youve just broken up with i think.

hope it gets better for you soon <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

---

It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees

Former Member

Originally posted by Babe_Behind_The_Bar:
I just checked my email to find my b/f of 6 weeks has dumped me.
The big thing is that I wanted him for so long, and I don't know how I'm going to get over him.
He still wants to be friends but I just don't know how I can talk to him now, cuz I still have all these feelings for him and I know all I want is to get back together with him.
I really don't know how I'm going to get over him either..

IMHO him wanting to "still be friends" is simply to make him feel better.

If I were you i would explain to him that it would be too painful for you to be friends right now, maybe in the future & you'll let him know when you are ready.

I know it's painful when you break up with someone, but believe me, as time goes by, you will think of him less and less.

Glad you de-lurked, welcome

j9

Former Member

I can't avoid him, though I wish I could.
it will just have to be business as normal.

Part of the problem is, I think, wanting him so badly for so long, I can't imagine being with anyone else right now.

thanks for the support, people, i'm off to bed to get a good nights rest now, and maybe feel a bit better in the morn.

JsT

Try and keep your head up high, and once the sadness is over, get back out on the pull <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

---

*Can't Think Of a decent Signature*

Former Member

i reckon being friends isnt just to make him feel better, wen i went out with my bf n i dumped him, i still really wanted to be friends with him because i loved him so much, just not as a bf anymore. he really knew me well and i could talk to him about anything. everything was great, but then he turned into a bastard, but thats another story...

Yeah so i reckon its kind of hard to be friends, you have to get over the person completely first, i made this mistake several times with my ex andwe ended up going out and then breaking up and then going out again etc.

so.... i reckon you should take some time out and then, if you still want to be mates then go for it, but really, you have to be completely over him before you be mates becuase otherwise it all turns messy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

i hope it works out 4 u aand welcome to thesite <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

---

There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did

Former Member

hey...my bf of 6 weeks just dumped me too, nearly as bad as yours: he did it over the phone. it was right before my bday as well, impeccable timing as usual. i did really really really like him, cos i'd fancied him for like 2 years, but now i realise what he's really like i'm just glad it's over. he has a new gf now, i wish her luck! all i can say to you is that u can never be friends with ur exes. it just never ever works, trust me. you can have blokes as friends and blokes as boyfriends, but as soon as one crosses from being a friend into a bf then your relationship can never go back to just friendship. and if all you were to each other was just a relationship, then it's simple: you can't be friends!

Former Member

I wish I could dump!

I've spent the best part of this afternoon on our loo and I still can't get last night's Tikka Surprise out of 'me system.

Bloomin' heck - and I've been guffing all afternoon!

Brings tears to 'yer eyes! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt;

I'm 73.

Former Member

Originally posted by Irate Albert:
I wish I could dump!

I've spent the best part of this afternoon on our loo and I still can't get last night's Tikka Surprise out of 'me system.

Bloomin' heck - and I've been guffing all afternoon!

Brings tears to 'yer eyes! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt;

I'm 73.

Behave yourself Albie, at your age you ought to know that this post should be in the health section <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

j9

Former Member

The bit I never told properly -
not only did he do it over email but he also put something nasty in there, saying I did nothing for him sexually.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
how dare he!! and he had nowt 2 compare me 2 anyway!!!
Hot_bitch I know just what you mean, I liked this guy for well over a year, he liked me too but wouldn't say.
Now he's not talking to me, and he even has the cheek to email me saying if I want to be friends then I should be adult about it!! and that I'm "reading the emails wrong".
No apology, and he's saying that he "can't see the problem"
I gotta say though, he doesn't look very happy himself these days.. whereas I've gone and had a new haircut, and all my friends are being supportive, so I feel great!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

---

We are all in the gutter.
The difference between us is that some of us face skyward..