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lads... who understands them???
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok tell me what you think. i was good friends with this lad from work about 3 years ago now. i kinda liked him but he had a long-term girl-friend so i happy enough with being friends.
we got on really well, used to text & ring each other every couple of days. he even rang me from australia over the summer 'just to say hi'. cos we were friends he was comin to my graduation with me.
then 1 fine day, we had a good aul natter, like old times.
2 days later i get a text sayin he cant come to the graduation (which only gives me 1 week to find someone else).
that was nearly a year ago now & since then ive got 3 texts from him & no phone call. WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ABOUT??? why the sudden change? is he just a bastard or am i missing something?
tell me what yry think... you can be brutal
we got on really well, used to text & ring each other every couple of days. he even rang me from australia over the summer 'just to say hi'. cos we were friends he was comin to my graduation with me.
then 1 fine day, we had a good aul natter, like old times.
2 days later i get a text sayin he cant come to the graduation (which only gives me 1 week to find someone else).
that was nearly a year ago now & since then ive got 3 texts from him & no phone call. WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ABOUT??? why the sudden change? is he just a bastard or am i missing something?
tell me what yry think... you can be brutal
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Can't you just call him and ask him?
Get back to me,
Phil.
sure i think its odd & really dont get it, but if hes not bothered calling me im sure as hell not gonna make a fool out of myself by callin him. seems desperate & needy... and im not desperate & needy!! if it is her fault... stupid cow!
Ah well... his loss i suppose....
sure i think its odd & really dont get it, but if hes not bothered calling me im sure as hell not gonna make a fool out of myself by callin him. seems desperate & needy... and im not desperate & needy!! if it is her fault... stupid cow!
Ah well... his loss i suppose.... <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Please forgive me.
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Maybe he's thinking the same thing? Just pick up the phone and call, if it's that bad you can always hangup <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Go on, don't lose a friendship over nothing, please.
Phil.
thanks phil, but he's NOT thinkin the same, ive been texting him every now & then just so that wouldnt be the case but the last few times ive got no reply. i dont like loosing a friend but im not gonna stick my head out for someone who obviously couldnt be bothered. let him & the mrs be, big prat! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">