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Really stupid thing 2 say....

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Right this is gonna sound daft, please dont laugh at me.

I think I love Myleene outta popstars. That sounds daft, but seeing her on every TV programme im just.....oh my god. We have so much in common, and when she isnt on TV I think about how good it would b to b with her.

I dunno wot to do about this.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol...you have whats commonly known as a crush! How old are you?

    Everyone has crushes on famous people!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm 17, and its not a crush.

    I really want her, and we would be really good together.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    it IS a crush, youve never met her, youve never had any contact with her, she doesnt know you exist. everyone has crushes on famous people, ive felt that i love people before, ive seen their pictures and read their interviews and watched them on tv and believed that we have loads in common... the only problem being, they've been famous and usually older than me, and they dont know i exist.

    crushes like this arent harmful, as long as at the end of the day you realise nothing is going to happen and that you will find someone you know who you feel this way about one day.

    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It is NOT A crush !!!

    She does know I exist, because I phoned This Morning when hearsay were on and asked her a question. And she smiled at the camera, obviously aimed towards me.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ConfusedMale:
    It is NOT A crush !!!

    She does know I exist, because I phoned This Morning when hearsay were on and asked her a question. And she smiled at the camera, obviously aimed towards me.


    OK, if you are serious, you need to see a counsellor.

    j9

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My mate had dinner with them the other nite. Kim is now on her answer phone saying"hi this is kim from hear say, annabel isnt here to take ur call at the mo as shes out with us but pls leave a msg"
    They live in her old house.

    I'd take the stars out the sky for you,
    There's nothing in this world i wouldnt do,
    If i could be your girl...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what did u ask confused male? cos i was watchin this morning! im afraid 2 say it is a crush. i mean i think that dermot o'leary is really nice looking! but i dont love him, u cant love some1 until u know them, even when people say "it was love at first sight" its not love its lust.

    2 love some1 u need to really know them. so im afraid it is a crush, i mean myleene has got a bf ne way i think.

    sorry mate! love jo
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by SexyCinderella:
    My mate had dinner with them the other nite. Kim is now on her answer phone saying"hi this is kim from hear say, annabel isnt here to take ur call at the mo as shes out with us but pls leave a msg"
    They live in her old house.


    lol...Kim and Suzanne come from well near me..and Suzanne went to my cousins high school. I like Noel the best...but thats totally off the subject hehe

    ConfusedMale, sorry for my answer at first it was a bit rash, but honestly, you seriously do have a crush, but I also agree with what J9 said. Just because she smiled at the camera doesnt mean it was aimed at you.

    I used to have a massive crush on Ronan Keating, hehe and now I think I love Eminem, but I'm not obsessed i just think hes well nice looking lol

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it is a crush <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    i used to have a major crush on brian from backstreet boys <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt; i seriously thought we would meet and fall in love and get married. i convinced myself that it would come true.

    Then i grew out of it.

    You can't be in love with someone from what you see on the tv and in the newspapers

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know what I feel, and its just great.

    I aint an obsessed stalker type guy, I aint gonna track her down and kill her or nothin.

    I just know that we r gonna b together one day, and none of you know otherwise.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    we rnt all against u. but what u see on telly is not neccessarily wot she is like in real life, u cannot be in love with her u dont love her, u r just infatuated by her.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Erm this ...
    Originally posted by ConfusedMale:
    I aint an obsessed stalker type guy,

    and this ...
    Orignally posted by ConfusedMale:
    I just know that we r gonna b together one day, and none of you know otherwise.

    sort of seem to be contradicting each other.

    Sorry, like Jolizzie said we're not all against you, just telling you the truth, you have a crush, maybe a little extreme crush, I mean come on what are the chances of you getting together ?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am no stalker !!!

    Say for example one of u lot met sum1 on the net, and u really really wanted to go out with them or whatver. Its exactly the same thing.

    And my uncle works for their record company, so it wouldnt be hard to give her my number, and she'll give me a call.

    I just want to b happy, is that so bad ??
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    its so not the same thing confused male. when you meet someone on the net, theres interaction, each person talks to the other person teh same amount, instead of you just hearing eveyrthing myleen says, but her only knowing you exist because of one question in a phone in.

    course wanting to be happy isnt a bad thing... but youre seriously deluding yourself here, we wouldnt just be nasty for the sake of it, we're trying to help you.

    but it looks like youre not gonna accept anythign we say.... but you cant say we didnt try.

    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I do take on board some of the things ure sayin, but I just want to give it a go.

    To b honest, I am pretty sure I could talk to her, like I say coz of my uncle and stuff. If she isnt interested, then fine i'll let it go !!!

    Its just another girl I like.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ConfusedMale:
    I do take on board some of the things ure sayin, but I just want to give it a go.

    To b honest, I am pretty sure I could talk to her, like I say coz of my uncle and stuff. If she isnt interested, then fine i'll let it go !!!

    Its just another girl I like.

    Well when you talk to her, read this thread to her & tell us what she says <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    j9

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ConfusedMale:
    And my uncle works for their record company, so it wouldnt be hard to give her my number, and she'll give me a call.

    no offense but this kind of sounds like a massive dream. why would a popstar call some guy that she has never even met and has no idea that he exists?

    i know exactly how you feel because i used to feel the same about backstreet boys, unfortunately, i would have done anyhting to meet them, i even tried to follow them back to their hotel once.

    but as with many other obessive teen fans, you get over it.

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What ques did u ask on her on tv??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Now I'm resisting the temptation not to laugh, cos you're being absolutely insanely stupid about this.

    I've heard of love making people completely irrational, but this is just stupid. She does NOT know who you are. So, you asked her a question. Big whoop - ur name probably means about as much to her as a me asking her how old she is in Züritüütsch.

    Give up mate. You're getting obsessive about this and you obviously have no idea when it comes to the opposite sex. Having a huge crush on a popstar is something that little 10y.os have on boybands. Not 17y.os with (hopefully) a bit more sense.

    Grow up and smell the reality.

    Cos i'm thinking about a brand new hope, one i've never known, and where it goes, cos now I know it's all that wanted.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    First of all right,

    you can actually get obsessed with some one, it is actually a mental problem to fall for someone famous and you can really truly believe stuff like when they make a hand movement its to tell you a secret message of when they touch their nose its a way of tellin you they love you

    you can get help for it n i really think u need to think about this.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Spirit II:
    First of all right,

    and second of all????

    Cos i'm thinking about a brand new hope, one i've never known, and where it goes, cos now I know it's all that wanted.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good luck in your quest. But i'm afraid the only advice i can give you is to get a grip!!!! Sorry!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    and second of all????


    Look i got fuckin distracted by something <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">,

    werent really worth it though *sigh* i woulda rather done a post about ppl who are obsessed with a pop star than do what i did.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its ok, I'll forget it.

    I think I know what it is ne way. I just been hurt by a few girls in the past + then i got thru to her and she smiled (probably just bein freindly or whatever), and it just lifted my spririts.

    And me, being me, got a bit over excited. I'm really sorry to have bothered u all about this, and I just gotta get over this.

    Sorry again.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And I hope u lot dont hate me for this.

    Its just I been havin a hard time lately (my mums ill and stuff), but I can beleive half of the crap I've written.

    Like I say, I'm really sorry.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've only just arrived, confusedmale r know what ur going through i was having a hard time at home and at school and I thought the only person who could really help me was Ben from a1 (I know how sad). But then i met him and realised he was just a stuckup ignorant rich kid, u c however nice they seem on tv and in magazines its just a show there all the same. U've got 2 get on with ur life find some1 ur age whos not famous who u really click with and u'll realise wat u think is love is really only a crush. U'll find happiness one day u've just gotta luk harder!!
    Luv me
    xxxx
    xxxx

    Apologie excepted.
  • JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    If U ever get to meet her.

    Congratulate her on number 1, from everyone at thesite!

    *Can't Think Of a decent Signature*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    {{{{{{{{ConfusedMale}}}}}}}}}

    Don't worry bout it, don't be sorry, you had a problem and we offered our advice. I hope we didn't offend u in any way.

    We're here to support you if ur feeling lonely or just want to talk <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    ~*~Emma~*~

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Call me paranoid, but I'm a little concerned that I read in the Mail on Sunday about Myleene being stalked & her boyfriend being attacked! My first reaction was to contact the authorities. What do you think?

    j9
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by j9:
    Call me paranoid, but I'm a little concerned that I read in the Mail on Sunday about Myleene being stalked & her boyfriend being attacked! My first reaction was to contact the authorities. What do you think?

    j9

    Maybe u should lmao! That would be totally mad if the stalker had actually written on thesite lmfao!
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