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What event has changed your life this year as a person?
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I'd reckon it'd be me holding onto old flames, when the feelings aren't repciprocated. It's made me realise things in general are in the past for a reason.
When my Mum scared me so much when we argued, it made me realise that I can't argue the same way I did with her when I was a kiddo, she can't deal with it much, anymore. It's made me I suppose a little more placid.
What about you?
When my Mum scared me so much when we argued, it made me realise that I can't argue the same way I did with her when I was a kiddo, she can't deal with it much, anymore. It's made me I suppose a little more placid.
What about you?
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Probably the Tesco CSC job, dunno if it changed me as such but it deffo made me realise I was more confident, and like I don't really feel that confident about things as sometimes I show.
Plenty of stuff I can learn from though. Always best to try and get on with things, so much better than pretending things aren't happening and stuff. Gotta be more responsible about stuff too.
I also think the new Will Young album could turn me into a full blown homosexual too :crazyeyes
Oh my. Shall we high five?
Last year was the year for major things happening resulting in my changing my life.
This years been pretty easy!
Didn't expect it to happen in the first month tho:eek2: .
I'm also coming to realize that my life isn't as great as I thought, both because my mental health is fragile as shit, and that I may flunk in something in school due to lack of enthusiasm.
Hmmm... there must be something positive.
xxx
meaning i have to look after my money better (ooh did i tell you about my new winter jacket? its well badass!
meeting a lot more people, which means more girls. i'm turning into more of a basturd everyday with my moral standards dropping.
and its made me want my mummy more
not so much wrong, just not as good. we're quite e/affectionate and cuddle and stuff.. its just for example i'm seeing her and i've got someone else all lined up and i can't stop going after girls... and there was amna, i never wanted to be the basturd a girl cheats with. but i was...
i'm a big twat now!
the whole depression/bulimia buissness
my first job, really enjoyed it there
i learnt to appreciate people, because before you know it they can go out of your life
seeing the good and bad in people and letting me make my own mind up
this year ive become a lot stronger person, a lot of bad shit that i dont want to post as well, but this year has been really something
Doing/getting the results of my GCSEs.
Getting my first job.
Starting college, and taking responsibility for my own learning.
And various experiences with people.
Oh yeah, and I've started using buses :eek:
All in all, I'm just a lot more independant, and a lot less naive than I was this time last year. Yes.
Buttt, I would say seening a counsellor about stuff what happened, and going on holiday with my best friend changed my life the most.
The counselling made me see sense and helped lots, and my holiday sort of changed my outlook on life in general and also changed the way I feel about myself, for the better.
Nice topic 1983, it really makes you think.
Above all, I'm learning that there's a whole world out there and I can't wait to see it.
It's made me feel quite hopeful for the future.
I think that getting a best friend, who is really close to me and I tell everything to, for the frist time since primary school, has changed me for the better, because it's made me less introverted and generally happier cos I know there's someone who sees everything the same way I do!
Also my boyfriend of nearly two years leaving for uni has made me much more independent, certainly a good thing.
On the more negative side having someone from our town die in Iraq (he was a soldier in my boyfriend's year at school) has brought home the importance of the government to every day life (may seem obvious, but I'd never really thought about it so much before)
In fact, the one thing that I would have thought would change me the most at the beginning of the year, losing my virginity, has really been very insignificant!
At the funeral 90% of the people there were 17 or 18 years old, nobody should die that young, being there made me feel so mortal.......
Bopz
I dont think moviong away from home to go to uni is hard at all. why is so hard? why is it such a big thing?:eek2:
Bopz
I didn't say it was hard.
All I said is that it has made me more independent, hence changing me as a person which is what the original question was! :eek2:
my aunt dying in june: like others have said, you learn not to take people for granted.
and generally this year i've learned to deal with life more.
Also increased in self-confidence, mainly down to my boyfriend.
Bopz:p