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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
My GF Is coming down today to my house and we havent seen each other for about a week but have been in contact with each other over the phone and she has said that she wants to have sex with me for the first time in our relationship, In a way i am happy that she wants to go that far but i am also worried because she has experience and i havent! As u can tell i am still a virgin and pretty proud as i think i have saved it for the right girl anywayz i am worried that its all going to go wrong, what if i get it started and she thinks my penis is too small that will make me look a twat. I have never done it and i know u should ask each other but have u guys and girls got any thing u could add to make this experience easier??

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    tell her how you feel.

    tell her your glad you waited 4 the right person, tell her your anxious... it shows you care about her and she will LOVE that!

    and be reassured by the fact that sex is dfferent for every1 and different partners. so you simply CAN'T do anything wrong, when there is no right way!

    And in time it will get better as you learn what each other likes!

    enjoy the moment!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with Pl4y, there is no right way to have sex, because I have had it with a few different people (don't get the wrong idea)and its not been exactly the same all the time. Talk to your girlfriend, possibly try and find out what are her turn ons and work with that!
    Well done for staying a virgin!
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