Home Sex & Relationships
If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Read the community guidelines before posting ✨
Options

younger guys for older gals

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
is it ok for an older gal to go out wiv a younger guy and has anyone eva dun it? how much younder were they?

there's a really cute guy still @ skool that i like. MmMmMm skoolboys lol.

he's only 1 yr younger <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did

Comments

  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it's perfectly OK 4 girls 2 go out wit younger guys! I've been out wit a few of the Yr10's @ my school (i'm in Yr11) & one of my mates is even goin out wit a Yr9 & she's in the same Yr as me! If u like him i recon u should go 4 it!! Good Luck XxX
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its fine, i have been out with a couple of lads 1 year younger than me, but i prefer older lads cos they tend to be more matture and stuff, but thats only a personal preference.!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think its ok but i've never actually done it myself. theres this guy i really like whos a year younger than me and i have major issues with asking him out, but hey we'll see!

    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    It doesn't really make a difference if they're only a year younger than you. I know a guy who's 15 but looks 17/18 (and acts it).

    I've found that I'm attracted to blokes a couple of years older than me, but if a mature 15 yr old asked me out (who I fancied), I'd say yes. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was 6 months older than my ex, but don't suppose that really counts, coz its not like loads. But i tend to agree with Jo, the younger type are a bit imature. Theres nothing wrong with it, i would go for it!!
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't think age really matters in this time we're living in. as long as you both get on well and he's mature in mind. there are some older guys, but they can act as a 6 year old!

    i went with this guy who was 1 year younger than me in a club. he was really gorgeous looking and every girl there wanted to gi with him and he knew it. but he wasn't big headed either.

    one year isn't THAT bad really.


    children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I believe that age has little relevance. My sister is three years older than my brother-in-law, by brother is 5 years younger than my sister-in-law, I am 15 yrs younger than my husband & my husban'ds ex-wife is 20 years older than her boyfriend (good luck to her <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">)

    Mental age, attitude, upbringing & background are far more important.

    j9
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my gf is a month older than me
    does that count???

  • Options
    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    im 3 months older than my bf at the mo <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; and i was ... er .. 5 months, yes thas it lol older than my ex. i dont think a few months like that is really gonna make much difference, although i guess it depends on the sort of person they are, whether they mix more with older or younger people can affect the way they act, whether they're mature for their age or not.

    but ive noticed in my 6th form college that girls definitely mature faster than most of the boys! loads of them still mess about wrestling to the ground and stuff and other games like that youd probably associate with younger guys, lol unless you went to school with them! hehe

    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
Sign In or Register to comment.