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lying about age
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right ive been with my g/f for 2 weeks now, and today she told me she lied about her age, shes actually in year 10 and not year 11 like she said. i duno wot to say or feel, i still wana be with her but i get the feeling i dont trust her any more. wot do u think, is it right to lie about ur age and is it alright for me to feel how i do or should i forget about it cos i like her a lot and she must to have told me she lied.
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it's perfectly ok to feel the way u do, (she did lie after all) but she admitted it early on which is a good thing, and it musta taken sum guts to tell u, so i think u shud giv her the benefit of the doubt.
if u really think it's a problem, then u shud talk 2 her bout it, otherwise now u can have a fab, honest relationship! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
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Which is why i lied 2 Matt (my current bf). U need 2 ask her why she lied 2 u b4 u do ne thing.
If u think it is a valid reason then i'd stay wit her, as u said u really like her. But if u find that u still don't trust her in a few weeks time then maybe it isn't worth it!?
A relationship needs trust, if u don't trust sum1 then u can't really have a relationship wit them but u also need 2 tell her how u feel. My bf told me he doesn't really trust me much @ the mo but we r working @ it. If he still don't trust me in a couple of weeks though then we will probably call it off coz there is no point 2 it if he don't trust me!
Hope i've been of sum help!
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but if she lied, she must have wanted you to like her and wanted to make a good impression. she probably didn't know what damage it could do to you. besides...one year isn't that much is it? it'll be different if she made an age up that is far from the truth. u can always argue that a lie is still a lie...but there is a difference between a small lie and a big lie.
and she admitting to you now just shows that she values u of something of importance and doesn't wanna lie no more. she must see the relationship something that will last and wants to come clean, and i think that's important, admitting it and saying sorry.
why don't u give her another chance? she probably just done it to impress you and now she's come clean...i don't see why u have to end it. it will take time for u to trust her again i know...but you'll get there if you're willing...and of course, if u think she's worth it!
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Mind u if u thing u cantrust her, go ahead, keep at it
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