What do I do?

Former Member

I've been married for 6 months and am 3 months pregnant but lately my husband has been insensitive and sometimes nasty. He's never hit me but threatens to leave me and doesn't do anything for me. We argue constantly and I'm not sure if we really should be together? What can I do?

Former Member

awww poor you, i dont think i can really give advice in this situation but if hes really nasty u dont want a child growing up in such a hostile environment do u?Im sure the alarm bells in your head are ringing now--he could get worse, try phoning a helpline they are qualified im not! sorry <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

Former Member

I know. I have said to him that after the baby is born I'm not wanting any arguements and nastiness in front of the baby and he is trying BUT we are still arguing. Not only that it's over minor things like his mother (who I don't get on with), his drinking and mainly his grumps which unfortunately evry guy gets.

Former Member

these dont sound like MAJOR problems but little problems do niggle i can understand that. try to avoid having anything to do with hid mum, and avoid situations where u may see her or talk about her, if its possible, try contacting her and meet on middle ground, just the two of you, and have a good talk. as for the drinking, that can develop into a bad problem but it doesnt sound like you r at that stage...try finding a middle grund, like him only drinking every other day, and then less and less til its only about twice a week.if his moodines is really bad then that could be the main problem, if u think it could get worse then rethink everything.....tell him he scares u etc. make sure he is sober when u tell him!

i dont want to sound like i know it all---coz i dont, but i try to help anyway i can.