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What should I do?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi!

I've been going out with my b/f for 3 months but he lives in Reading and I live in Manchester.
When we both went home, at first he phoned me all the time but now he doesn't. I cant speak to him when he's alone because his friends are always with him.
Also I went to London last week n he said he'd come and see me but he didn't phone to tell me he wasn't.
I dont know whether to leave it or phone him?
Please help it would be much appreciated!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey!! i think you should phone him and talk it all through with him!! u need to consider whether u think the relationship is working, talk this through with him!! i know u mite be a bit worried bout callin him, try not to worry as soon as he answers it'll be fine!! just relax and tell him exactly how ur feeling!! hope that helps!

    "The hardest part of loving is not when you get hurt. It's when you can't show the one you love how you feel because his heart already belongs to someone else."
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, it depends what he means to you. Do you love him? Being apart may have made you grow apart, is it worth tring to salvage a relationship? If he doesn't even call to say he isn't coming to meet you... it appears that you don't mean much to him. Meet new people and look a bit closer to home for romance.

    By the way, I only live up the road from Manchester. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; Just a thought!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Capatin kirk - this girl has a relationship problem and you hitting on her - shame on you!! your a nasty nasty man -

    lil hunny - forget Capt. Kirk.
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    Im IN manchester! LOL

    Phone him - talk to him, dont be aggressive when you do - otherwise he will just get defensinve and you will get nowhere.

    HTH

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for the advice people! I spoke 2 him earlier I think we're gonna start again! So thankyou!

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