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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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i just started going out with this bloke who i didn't like more than as a friend but now i really regret it. he knows i don't fancy him and he doesn't fancy me either but we're just going out for the sake of it because all of our other mates are coupled up. i know, stupid thing to do, but i felt so sorry for him at the time (and for myself at the time) i agreed to go out with him. now i realise it was the wrong way to sort out my depression but i've never dumped in my life and i know how much it would hurt him because he's so desperate for a girlfriend. but i feel so awkward pretending to like him when we both know i don't. how am i going to do this?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    mmmm...got your self into a bit of a hard problem there! Just see if you can try and get along, you don't have to go out just get to know each other better, speand time together! But if you really cant stand it...leave him, thers no point in kidding yourselves on, you'll just end up hurt and used!
    Love Miss_Kxxxxx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You really need to talk to him and sort it out!! Maybe if u have a long chat about it, u mite realise that u do like him after all!! If not try n sort it out wiv him, be nice, he obviously doesnt want to get hurt! So think carefully about it!! Make sure its just u and him no1 else involved that gets complecated!! So give it a go, good luck! Jen xx
    "The hardest part of loving is not when you get hurt. It's when you can't show the one you love how you feel because his heart already belongs to someone else."
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well if he knows that you dont like him like that and he doesnt like you like that then talk with him and come to a mutual breakup. It works i was in the same situation a couple of years ago. You think you'll hurt him if you dump him but if you keep on going out with him when you dont like him like that then all your doing his hurting his feelings more and probably making him feel bad. It may be hard to talk tohim about it but it will help. Good luck. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/hippy.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Erm, doesn't seem to me like u have a choice! U can't go out with some1 u don't feel for in that way, it's mean to him, and mean to u. If he knows u don't really like him, n he doesn't like u in that way then breaking up isn't gonna affect u both that much. Make sure it's mutual tho
    xxs
    Who ate all the pies??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok thanks so much for your advice everyone, but now i've got myself into even deeper trouble. i tried to talk it over with him but he begged me not to call it quits so i couldn't bring myself to do it. now i really don't know what to do because, on top of all this, i like fancy someone else! i'm not sure he fancies me back yet but i really don't know what to do, now i know i will do him some serious damage if i dump my boyfriend. he even said he really really liked me but i'm not sure if he did it just to get me to stay with him. what am i gonna do now?!
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