Love or not?

Former Member

hello people,

need sum advice please, i have been seeing this guy for about 2 weeks now, i really like him and him the same, i mean he pays for everything when we go out and he is just the sweetest bloke.

but heres the problem last nite he went out on a piss up and called me at like 12 o clock telling me how much he loves me bla bla bla but im not sure what to say to him now should i make a joke of it or ask him whether he meant it or what im in a right mess over this threw lack of sleep and what to say? i dont want to loose him but i dont want to get hurt we have only just started to see each other?

i mean is there a certain time to tell some one u love them whether u are pissed or not i mean cos i can feel myself falling for him but i need some advice please if anyone can help i would appriciate it!

cheerz

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[This message has been edited by bluey (edited 26-10-2001).]

Former Member

if i were u, i would just ignore it, forget it ever happened. he was pissed, dont get stressed about it. everyone loves everyone when their pissed, dont confront him about it coz you might ruin whatever you have with him. wait until he tells u he loves you when hes sober, it'll come one day.

Former Member

I wouldnt do anything. I would wait and see if he says it again, which if he does love you he will. You'll probably find that he does love you but hasn't had the courage to tell you and by being drunk its given him that extra confidence he needed. Generally blokes wont say they love you unless they really do its not something they just come out with unless (in my experience) they're on coke or pills.

I've just started a new relationship and we've been together for about a month and we were in love after a couple of weeks. I don't think theres a certain time you have to be with someone before you can fall in love. It all depends on the relationship you have.

[This message has been edited by Miss P (edited 26-10-2001).]

Former Member

thank you people not sure whats going on now cos his ignoring me and i getting worried i dont want to bombard him with texts but its hard not to when he doesnt reply!

thanx again!

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