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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I am really upset and annoyed with my "best friend" Jaz (I'm not using real names) Well, me and my other friend...Megan, were on the phone last night, and we realised that Jaz has been being really two-faced to us. Recently I discovered that Jaz and another friend secretly made up and e-mail address, called jenny@lesbian-at-large.com. And then Megan told me that Jaz had been saying to other people (only close friends) 'Do you think Jenny's bi?' I was really hurt by this, because me and Jaz are usually really good friends. I know all girls bitch, but we never say things like this about each other. I don't trust her at all anymore. She's on holiday now, but when she gets back I really wanna say something to her. The thing is, Megan made me promise not to, because then Jaz will know that Megan had told me and Megan would be in trouble. I don't know what to do, please help! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

Thanks,
Jenny xxx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    PS. I am not gay or bi, I am the one in out group who goes on about lads the most!
    Jenny xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe you could come on to her strong. That'll give her a bit of a fright.

    Sit her down and have a chat when she get's back. It's good to talk.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by eminems_gal:
    I am really upset and annoyed with my "best friend" Jaz (I'm not using real names) Well, me and my other friend...Megan, were on the phone last night, and we realised that Jaz has been being really two-faced to us. Recently I discovered that Jaz and another friend secretly made up and e-mail address, called jenny@lesbian-at-large.com. And then Megan told me that Jaz had been saying to other people (only close friends) 'Do you think Jenny's bi?' I was really hurt by this, because me and Jaz are usually really good friends. I know all girls bitch, but we never say things like this about each other. I don't trust her at all anymore. She's on holiday now, but when she gets back I really wanna say something to her. The thing is, Megan made me promise not to, because then Jaz will know that Megan had told me and Megan would be in trouble. I don't know what to do, please help! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    Thanks,


    Hi,
    I wouldnt worry too much about it if i were you, but you really should comfront your friend about what she has been doing. I understand that the friend who told you dosnt want you to because she wasnt supposed to have told you, but if she thought it was important enought to tell you then she should have to face up to it, and maybe even support you, if you do decide to speak to your friend. The chances are that your friend will deny it, but really whatever she says you cant really call someone who does something like that to you a proper friend.I am not homophobic or anything, but nobody has the right, to make something up about somebody especially if they know it will hurt them. Good luck, I'm sure it will turn out ok in the end.
    Love
    Ana
    Xxxxxxxxxx
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