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what do I do
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I am sitting here with a chipped bone in my wrist and a shoulder that is very painful. I am living with a guy who is so quietly spoken and mild mannered that nobody would belive how he can loose his temper. I am no angel, but I feel so lonely - we argued after he thru me on the floor and when I cried he said he didnt want to be with anybody who behaved like that. My friends say I am well liked, king and caring and also good looking (if I could only believe that). He was physically abused by his mum and his dad didnt really care about her, from what I can gather. We split up a couple of years ago, but have since got back together, during our split I started seeing somebody else for a few weeks. His sister told him about it and he wont let me forget it. I am so sad, and scared I dont trust his temper anymore and also we have a nice house but I know it will be a struggle to manageon my own. I am worried about my daughter - he always plays mind and emotional games with me and seems to win all the time. What am I going to do.
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you have to leave him before things get worse do you really want your daughteer growing up in this kind of environment? or even worse how would you feel if he started hurting her too? you have got to leave for yours and your daughters sake please leave him
Take good care of yourself, and let us know how you get on.
all the best
Karla
Its easier said than done I'm sure but think of the long term, think of what you want your daughter to remember when she's older.
Nolite te bastardes carborundorum
You deserve much, much better, and so does your daughter.
please take care xxxx
"The hardest part of loving is not when you get hurt. It's when you can't show the one you love how you feel because his heart already belongs to someone else."
Please stick around on here and let us know how you get on, I have only been a member of this group for 2 days myself, and already these people seem to give the best advice going.
I hope things get better for you.
Concentric_circles
Before it is too late.
Once the avalance is started it is too late for the pebbles to vote.
Now I have to try to stay calm - hearing of a lady being beaten gets me absolutely livid.
Good luck