How would you all respond if...

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...I said I was no longer a virgin?

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*faints*

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*Gives LacyMay the smelling salts*

I'd resond with... Well done!

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I'd be rather shocked tbh.

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id say....

woo! lets have a party!

nah really id say, nice one :thumb:

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i'd say you'd need to explain exactly how that came about, and whether you'd gone against your self defined moral values surrounding the subject, before i'd pass comment.

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I'd say, "what do you want, a medal?"

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Id say `I didnt know youd got married!!`

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Id say as long as you werent pressurised by anyone and you were ready then........was it like you expected

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One the one hand, I'd think 'hey, good for you'

BUT on the other hand, I'd add you to my list of men who think they have principles and morals, who go on about how they're better than everyone else, and then - oh, look! - they abandon their values when they feel like it.

But then that's a very cynical view to take, and it's really only cos of certain personal experiences.

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Re: How would you all respond if...

Originally posted by Skateside
...I said I was no longer a virgin?

why? do you think it's the sort of thing you're likely to say?

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i know all bout ur christain values and i used to have the same views bout sex before marrage, i even used to carry a "true love waits" card to show to guys who were trying to get in my pants.

BUT!! if you are now in a rel wit someone you love and you fort it was the right for you to take the next step and you see yourself being with this person for a long time then i think that you made a good choice. i mean the way i see it god would want you to know how to please your future wife.
but thats just the way i see it.

would you care to tell us more my dear.

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Re: How would you all respond if...

Originally posted by Skateside
...I said I was no longer a virgin?

I'd say having sex with animals didn't count ..............

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Re: How would you all respond if...

Originally posted by Skateside
...I said I was no longer a virgin?

I'd say don't go telling everyone about everything, or you'll be bombarded with embarassing questions. I'd also be concerned about whether you really enjoyed it if you have to tell everyone.

All the same, good for you.

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I'd say keep it to yourself and be smug about it. Besides, it's a private thing anyway so there.

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id say i didnt care in the slightest

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Id say as long as u felt comfortable with it, then go u! If something feels right, even if it goes against morals u think u have, then try it. True, there can be regret afterwards, but that can be coped with, by copious amounts of chocolate...

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i'd say nothing, it doesn't exactly concern me

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I'd say, so....? :rolleyes:

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look to be honest no-one really gives a fuck what you do, your just a random name to me and i couldnt care less if you shagged 5000 women or 0

so shut up and stop making random 'everyone look at me threads'

and pull your head out of your own arse

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I don't really care.

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I'd say me too, tt's ONLY sex. Not as though you've got a cure for Cancer. So you came in a lass? Well, slap my thigh and tickle me with a chicken!

Really. Norra lorra of a big deal.

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I think some of these responses are pretty funny, and others are quite blunk.

Char_Baby put it best, and did ruffle my feathers a little, but it wasn't undeserved.

OK, an explaination to this thread:
I am still a virgin, I was just curious to see how you'd react, considering I was so big on the "no sex before marriage" thing.

Well, that's something I've chosen to walk away from now. I'm just fundimentally fed up of being the only one who believes in it, and this isn't the first time I've felt like that.
Just thought I'd get though out.

I'm sorry if I actually offended anyone with this topic, because it does sound like I've annoyed a couple of you :nervous:

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Originally posted by Skateside
I'm sorry if I actually offended anyone with this topic, because it does sound like I've annoyed a couple of you :nervous:

Um ... I think that you probably overestimated that people actually took much notice of your previous posts. I've seen you on here and vaguely remember reading your odd posts here and there but there wasn't anything that cemented them in my mind. People quickly forget so I guess your exercise was perhaps a little flawed?

Anyway, I certainly wasn't annoyed ....

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you're not the only one! i might be the only one left though now

oh well. there will be someone for me at some point.

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Originally posted by sfnu
you're not the only one! i might be the only one left though now

oh well. there will be someone for me at some point.

OK, so there's one other.

It's still a good thing to believe in I guess, but to tell you the truth, I just got bored of it.

I wish you the best of luck with that, I know how hard it can be.

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ah but it's not as if i'm constantly challenged by it - i don't have a bf, don't go out on the pull, am generally unattractive and not bothered about a relationship for the sake of being in one. so it's not boring for me

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I was gonna say it's bullshit but you have already answered

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Originally posted by Skateside
OK, so there's one other.

It's still a good thing to believe in I guess, but to tell you the truth, I just got bored of it.

I wish you the best of luck with that, I know how hard it can be.

Don't you feel guilty that you haven't stuck by your word? Don't you feel like you were a bit of a fraud, really, telling everyone you were going to wait until marriage when you've just given up now because you 'got bored of it?'

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but he didnt do it, he lied

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Originally posted by Skateside
I think some of these responses are pretty funny, and others are quite blunk.

Char_Baby put it best, and did ruffle my feathers a little, but it wasn't undeserved.

OK, an explaination to this thread:
I am still a virgin, I was just curious to see how you'd react, considering I was so big on the "no sex before marriage" thing.

Well, that's something I've chosen to walk away from now. I'm just fundimentally fed up of being the only one who believes in it, and this isn't the first time I've felt like that.
Just thought I'd get though out.

I'm sorry if I actually offended anyone with this topic, because it does sound like I've annoyed a couple of you :nervous:

Why have you given up all of a sudden though? You knew how difficult it was before! What's changed? Have you got yourself a girlfriend now and she's pressuring you? That's the only thing I think it could be to be enough to give up something as big as this.