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Im going out with my best mate, but im confused
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hi everyone
well im going out with my best mate at the mo. ive fancied her ever since i set eyes on her. and finally last week she said she wanted to see me. but the thing is im not sure if she really does want to see me. i get the feeling she is saying it because she cant say no to me. we used to hold hands and kiss as mates (not snog) but i saw her for the first time today since she said yes and she didnt want to do none of that. she says she wanst to take it slow but i dont see why we have to start again doing all this. i respect her dession and i have been talking it over with her, which has helped, but her mates tell me she is lieing, but they have lied to me in the past and i dont know who to believe. i belive my girl because i trust her, but some things seem to much like coinicidance. some people have told me when i asked them for advice, that i should play hard to get and stuff, or im going in to strong, im not sure. maybe i am. but i just want to truly know if she does want to be with me and not just saying it to shut me up. maybe it is werid at first, thats why she wants to go slow, but im not sure. i enjoyed seeing her today but it seemed like i was being pushed away at times. what should i do?
well im going out with my best mate at the mo. ive fancied her ever since i set eyes on her. and finally last week she said she wanted to see me. but the thing is im not sure if she really does want to see me. i get the feeling she is saying it because she cant say no to me. we used to hold hands and kiss as mates (not snog) but i saw her for the first time today since she said yes and she didnt want to do none of that. she says she wanst to take it slow but i dont see why we have to start again doing all this. i respect her dession and i have been talking it over with her, which has helped, but her mates tell me she is lieing, but they have lied to me in the past and i dont know who to believe. i belive my girl because i trust her, but some things seem to much like coinicidance. some people have told me when i asked them for advice, that i should play hard to get and stuff, or im going in to strong, im not sure. maybe i am. but i just want to truly know if she does want to be with me and not just saying it to shut me up. maybe it is werid at first, thats why she wants to go slow, but im not sure. i enjoyed seeing her today but it seemed like i was being pushed away at times. what should i do?
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but best of luck
1 Life= 1 shot
if nothing else, make it a good one for yourself!