what's wrong with me??

Former Member

Me and my boyfriend split 6 mths ago, after some big problems. things ended bad even though we said we would stay friends he has been really horrible to me. i did hurt him, but he also hurt me with lies too. but i just cant seem to get over him properly. he is at the stage where if he walks past me, or drives past me that he doesnt notive me at all. i notice him all the time. since we split up i got really bad, i was on anti depresents and put on about a stone. i hated myself. i have gotten better since that and have started loosing the weight now, and am no longer on anit's. but i just cant seem to move on from him. i think about him a lot. i notice him all the time. i still sometimes get really low and cry about it because i miss him so much. i know he doesnt like me one bit any more which hurts, i think he has been with his new girl friend for a good couple of months now. total opposite of me, she has blonde hair and is really skinny. makes me feel bad as i have darkbrown/black hair and i am curvy. it does hurt that he has moved on and forgotten all about me, but i just want to do the same and i cant. i just miss him so much, and i dont want to feel this way any more. has any one got any tips of how to help me forget him?? i know there is no magic cure but any thing that could help make it easier, and not hurt as much would be a help. thx

Former Member

Throw yourself into work/school, get a hobby, read, socialise more. This is one of those times where a girl really needs her friends, so call on them more. Just try really hard not to think about him. Get a puzzle book or start knitting, I know it sounds stupid, but I was totally in love with a guy earlier this year and he severed all ties with me and treated me like dirt. Keeping myself busy was the best thing. I stopped thinking about him and stopped liking him. Don't think about finding another man yet, focus on being happy as a singleton for now. I wish you all the best in being happy again and forgetting the swine. PM me if you like.

x

Haha, edited to add: You have sonic and I have Mario! Sonic is my favourite but couldn't find an av of him