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ive met someone and hes lovely. all his friends who i know say that hes a decent bloke and hes not just out for sex but hes just broken up with his girlfriend (about a month ago) so to be careful which is fair enough as im not planning on rushing into anything.
but my friends (who dont know him) have said it sounds like he just wants sex because he text me sayin 'if you're not doing anything on saturday do u wanna come over for a drink cos im home alone'

kinda confusing because he seems lovely so i wanna trust that hes just a lovely bloke and has good intentions. but im not sure so i suggested we do something in the day on saturday, like go out somewhere but hes now said i have to pick what i wanna do.

so my questions to you are

1. what do you think? should i go for it and trust our mutual friend or does it sound like hes just after sex

and

2. if i do go for it where should i say to go?

sorry its long, thank you in advance xxx

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ok if he's just after one thing you'll soon find out and if he's not you'll find out that too.... if you like the guy go for it .... if you are old enough just go to the pub and talk if not then go ice skating or something like that

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go and enjoy yourself and you will soon find out. Id listen to the mutual friend :yes:

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yeah i think im going to go for it. if its a public place it should be fine shoudnt it?

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Originally posted by blonde__batman
yeah i think im going to go for it. if its a public place it should be fine shoudnt it?

yup, now i dont wanna sound like a patronising grown up....actually I do so make sure you tell a responsible grown up where your going, who with, what time your expected back blah blah



let us know how it goes

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You're 17 right?

Do you have any problems getting into pubs and clubs?

Just wondering cos he said he wants to take you out for a drink and I'm assuming he don't mean Ribena. As a precaution you should always watch as a guy gets you a drink, don't want to risk someone slipping something into your drink!!

Yeah stick to a public place or even go on a double date!!

Watford's quite a good place to go out if you want the element of public saftey because there's always loads of police men and women on duty on friday and saturday night .. I'll probabaly be there myself to.

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Originally posted by VinylVicky

let us know how it goes

hehe will do

and diamond, yeah im 17. i think we've decided on bowling now. i look like im about 15 so pubs r a no no really. i think it'll b fine cos my friends know him and i'll tell people where im going and stuff

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good luck and have fun you are only young once

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hope it goes well :yes:

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me to :hyper:

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good luck

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Originally posted by VinylVicky

let us know how it goes

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it went well then?

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hehe yep

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and you mean to say your not gonna elaborate?!

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Originally posted by lucifer devil
and you mean to say your not gonna elaborate?!

im sure everyone doesnt want to know!

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Originally posted by blonde__batman
im sure everyone doesnt want to know!

I do.

Ok, so Ive never psrticularly spoken to you before but Im just plain nosey and bored

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Originally posted by faerielights
I do.

Ok, so Ive never psrticularly spoken to you before but Im just plain nosey and bored

lol bless.

well...it went well, didnt c him the day we planned but umm...not yesterday, the day before he came up and we chatted and watched tele and had a bit of a cuddle. just takin it slow cos we've both been hurt and stuff

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Aww hope everything works out for ya chick

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thank you xx