How can you tell if he's really genuine?

BillieTheBot

Well this guy, I've been talking to a lot on MSN and I wanna know how you can tell if a guy's genuine or not.

I've met him & he seems ok, but I dunno, cos I've had guys liking me cos they think they can get sex outta me.

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Former Member

Tricky one, 'cos he could be genuine AND want sex. In fact I'm gonna say wanting sex is the ground state for most men and that you should be looking for anything else over and above that.

I suppose the difference is a genuine guy will have more patience than one who's just after a quick bit.

Former Member

Yea I agree with Lord of Little with the patience thing. I'd spend a bit more time actually with him getting to know him as a person and you'll soon see if he's right <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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yeah, i think LoL has got it right here...guys look for sex. then a relationship. then a nice girl to have it with.

i think just keep going, seeing him...if he's shallow and only looking to attempt procreation, u'll soon find out.

Former Member

<IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt; i think you are all wrong i am a man and i dont look for sex. i care about the person if you dont beleive me then so be it but it is the truth.

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Former Member

Originally posted by Geoff_the_freak:
<IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt; i think you are all wrong i am a man and i dont look for sex. i care about the person if you dont beleive me then so be it but it is the truth.

there are freaks in this world, of course <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; (oh, sorry, i should call them exceptions <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; )

calm geoff, we're engaging in debate, and i'm being silly. i think we made broad, sweeping generalisations (as if u can make a narrow generalisation). i agree, there are guys that are far deeper than normally, but they ARE often the exceptions.

Former Member

Originally posted by Geoff_the_freak:
i dont look for sex

There are quite a lot of guys who don't actually look for sex, but that's not to say they don't want it.

Former Member

Ok then let me put it this way.
I dont look for sex and i don't want sex . At this point in my life i am happy being single. but your right a lot of guys do want for one thing and one thing only, but as i said before those are other guys not me.

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Former Member

Thanks for the advice (and the arguement). I'm gonna see how it goes, if he thinks he's getting sex outta me he can fuck off.

I believe there are genuine guys who don't just want sex out there somewhere, they probably go for pretty special girls, but to be honest, being single is peachy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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My middle finger up...

Former Member

Originally posted by ~*LIBERTY*~:
being single is peachy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Couldn't have said it better myself

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Former Member

~*LIBERTY*~:
how you can tell if a guy's genuine or not.

look for a sticker of authenticity?

go with ur feelings, if ur having doubts he probably isnt. if you meet up and dont let him do anything with you, no matter how nice he is etc and he's eager to see you again, you may then know he wants to be with you and not just in bed.

guys actually do the following:

• Look for a nice girl they're attracted to
• Find out what their personality is like
• Get with them for a relationship and hope for sex

i don't think a guy could go looking for just sex, because if they were that bothered about it they could just pay for it

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