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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Im fed up being single, im fed up with girls saying the same thing, your my special friend (Real terms means ' i wana be just mates but i dont wana say that as you'll just say everyone says that') Im fed up being messed about having girls say they like me and things then when i see them they are either cold or horrible to me or dont wana go out with me

Im fed up with being dumped for other blokes, that is really bad for my self confidance, and im fed up with girls saying they like me then rejecting me for some other bloke then cum running to me when everything starts going wrong or they have an arguement. im seriously fed up with being leg along and used and messed about with.

Im fed up with mates saying im going out with the wrong girls (maybe thats because the 'right' girls wont go out with me), im fed up hearing people say you'll find someone soon, or your younge you got the rest of your life to lead, you dont need a g/f (funny only people in relationships say that) im fed up with people telling me to enjoy single life. its great fun being single and no one wanting you or cuddling you or showing an interest in you.

If you havent guessed im totally fed up.
What can i do to change this? i just want a nice girl to like me, not to have all the above, cos its getting me down at times. And im probably pushing my mates away with moaning at them all the time. Sorry just had to say all this.


I duno what to do, i just want a gir

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have to admit I'm feeling a bit lonely right now. I just want a nice fella <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    I know you're probably sick of people giving you hopeless advice but maybe if you just forget about getting a girl for a while then you never know, she might show up. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;



    One of Heaven's lil Angels <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angel.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I feel fed up too.. but the more you think about it the more fed up youll get! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Think yourself lucky that you can be close friend wise with ther opposite sex, some people dont even have that..

    I know that doesnt really help with the confidence thing, but i do know how u feel!

    Lxxx <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


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  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    (((((((neonero)))))))

    im feeling a bit lonely at the moment too <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; i had a boyfriend for so long and it was weird getting used to being single again. just as i thought i was getting there i met someone else, but that didnt work out. and its always the way, the people you like, dont like you, and vice versa.

    i know relationships arent as nice and happy as people without them think. when people say you dont need a gf, its probably because they know its not as rosy as single people think. its a case of the grass always being greener i suppose. when you're in a relationship you sometimes wish to be single, to be free and get off with who you like and stuff for a while, be away from little niggles about your relationship and being able to go out with your mates and not worry about someone else all the time. but when youre single, all you want is someone to be there for you, to cuddle and to kiss and to spend all your time with, and for them to be there for you all the time. single people cant see whats so great about being single, people in relationships cant see whats so great about that, and everyone just ends up envying everyone else.

    theres not a lot i can say, apart from the usual "you'll find someone who's right for you someday"... "enjoy single life" blah blah... coz it doesnt really help. i think for now you just have to accept you're single and go with the flow.

    i know it sucks sometimes, but we know how you feel. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    GFM i totally agree, half the time when you have it you dont want it do you?? Im afraid thats the way life is sometimes... as sucky as it may be <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    Lxxx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I haven't been out of my long-term relationship long and I'm finding it a bit hard although I get the impression my ex is hadnling it fine <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; We're meant to still be friends but he hardly ever wants to talk to me now. I'm starting to feel he's trying to tell me to piss off out of his life...

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    Sorry guys, I just had to edit my post cos I'd missed a word out lol.

    [This message has been edited by ~*Heaven Scent*~ (edited 23-07-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ((((HEAVENSCENT)))))

    Aww im sure hes not handling it as well as he seems... men tend to put on a braver face! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Lxxx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He's doing a very good job convincing me then lol. Oh I dunno, I give up <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Men are soooo annoyin!! Im considering joining a nunnery!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; LOL

    Whos with me?!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Lxxx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lurvlylucy:
    Men are soooo annoyin!! Im considering joining a nunnery!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; LOL

    Whos with me?!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Lxxx


    i don't think so....but i'll telly ou what.....im lonely toooooooooooooooo. Does anyone else get that feelign that you've been single just toooo long and your almost forgetting what it's like to be with someone else. That horrible wanting feeling for kisses and cuddles etc. and then the oh my god, i don't know what to do when you perfectly well do!!!!!!!! Stupid eh?
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Kat:
    i don't think so....but i'll telly ou what.....im lonely toooooooooooooooo. Does anyone else get that feelign that you've been single just toooo long and your almost forgetting what it's like to be with someone else. That horrible wanting feeling for kisses and cuddles etc. and then the oh my god, i don't know what to do when you perfectly well do!!!!!!!! Stupid eh?

    i know exactly what you mean and i feel the same... up until the "and then the oh my god, i don't know what to do when you perfectly well do!!!!!!!!" but and you just totally lost me!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;



    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    "and then the oh my god, i don't know what to do when you perfectly well do!!!!!!!!"

    As in thinking you've forgetten how to kiss and stuff.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    As in thinking you've forgetten how to kiss and stuff.

    ahhhhh! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its funny that in the world there is millions of people all saying and thinking the same things. its a shame that they didnt all know each other so that they could go out and no longer be single.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the more u get in2 the depressed state, the less attractive u will seem to others u meet

    remember that one

    Playing with fire will ultimately see you burnt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It sucks being single in many ways, but in many other ways it's pretty cool.

    Ok, I haven't ever been in a proper relationship, but I have been looking for one. You know, when I advertised I got a response...from men who wanted me for sex.

    It hurts like hell when a person you like "just wantds to be friends", one guy once said "I like her as a friend, but couldn't fuck her". Charming.

    But I believe there is someone for everyone. One day, we'll all wake up, looking into the eyes of somebody we love (hopefully, my future hubby will have blue eyes hehe). Why the rush? If somebody you care for don't treat you like you deserve to be treated, don't bother with them.

    I'm not lucky in love, all my friends are way prettier and smarter than me, so how do I compete? Someone's gotta turn up.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lurvlylucy:
    Men are soooo annoyin!! Im considering joining a nunnery!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; LOL

    Whos with me?!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Lxxx



    lmfao u dont no how many times I have said this in the past....then I realised they dont really go fo 19 year old mothers who ejoy getting high and aint even religious lmfao!
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