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well guys i come clean
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some of you might of seen my post about confessing that i cheated on my b/f.
well i come clean and i told him, i couldnt cope with the guilt it was making me ratty and irratable and basically not helpin our r/ship anyway.
he ws ok with it (well as much as you'd expect) and he said that he still wanted to be with me which is a big relief, i didnt expect him to stick around.
i told him that i didnt wanna tell him when it happened because that i thought it would change things between us and he said it wouldnt, but lately he's admitted it has. i cant blame him because i'd no i feel the same but how can i reassure him that im not gonna do it again, he's the one i love. i dont no what i'd do without him.
well i come clean and i told him, i couldnt cope with the guilt it was making me ratty and irratable and basically not helpin our r/ship anyway.
he ws ok with it (well as much as you'd expect) and he said that he still wanted to be with me which is a big relief, i didnt expect him to stick around.
i told him that i didnt wanna tell him when it happened because that i thought it would change things between us and he said it wouldnt, but lately he's admitted it has. i cant blame him because i'd no i feel the same but how can i reassure him that im not gonna do it again, he's the one i love. i dont no what i'd do without him.
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Good luck hun. Hope you and your b/f stay together. Lets hope its makes your relationship stronger!
Meh. No sympathy here babes, sorry.
surely justifying something by saying 'hope it makes the realtionship stronger' is the worst possible positive spin.
In the future when confessing to numerous one night stands.
'i'm sorry, they didn't mean anything, just made me realise how special you really are'
Surely there is no way something like this can make a relationship stronger, or am i missing something?
The idea of cheating on the person you're in love with really confuses me.?
i was offered the chance of fucking the most sexiest girl i know who all the fellas i know wanted to buck but i turned her down because i didnt want to hurt my g/f by cheating on her. it would have been a great night of pure steamy sex but why gamble what i have now for just that one night.
if you love someone enough, you wouldnt cheat in the first place.
Ok, so she cheated on her boyfriend, and it was wrong. If she 'loved/s' him shouldnt have done it blah blah. Well...she did.
But at least give the girl credit for coming clean, tis not easy. Anyway, hope it all works out for you
Yes, what she did was wrong, but she made the decision to tell him about it, and he's forgiven her. So it's not up to anyone else to condemn her, IMO.
Sar's the lady, I hope it works out - it'll be tough for a while, and you know that, but if your relationship is strong enough then you'll get through it and maybe even be closer than ever because of it.
Her b/f has forgiven her, but it is of course going to effect how things are. Just keep doing nice things and working on the relationship and hopefully he will learn to leave it behind.
Here here! Well done sar's. You have got some guts!
thanks muchly for all your advice anyway guys.
:yes: that sounds like the best plan of action to me. Hope it works out but if it doesn't, you can learn from this mistake and move on. Good Luck.