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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Has anyone had a sex partner or have one?

If a girl/boy that you was mates with asked you if you wanted to be sex partners, then would you? and if you wouldnt why not.

Just wondering what you all thought on the subject of someone having a sex partner and if its ok to have one.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not adverse to the idea but it'd have to be someone that I fancied and i'd have to know they liked me as well.

    Actually, I don't think I could. It'd change our friendship totally.

    One of my friends can do something very unusual and I kept asking him to do it(for, like, weeks) and then one night he was going to do it for me and I told him not to. It would have affected our friendship too much.

    And, at the end of the day, i'd rather have friends than sex.
    How much is the fish?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Although my best mate has sex with one of her freineds virtually every time she sees him.
    How much is the fish?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Iv never had sex with a friend but i have been fingered by one, and done oral with one, and altho it was an experience, it didnt really do anything for our friendship, we used to be really close n now were not.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; wouldnt recoomend it. Not worth the risk!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lurvlylucy:
    Iv never had sex with a friend but i have been fingered by one, and done oral with one, and altho it was an experience, it didnt really do anything for our friendship, we used to be really close n now were not.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; wouldnt recoomend it. Not worth the risk!

    Lxxx


    I'm the same. Foreplay with a friend, very good in the heat of the moment, very awkward afterwards. We pretended it hadn't even happened. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt;

    But perhaps this isn't the same as arranged sex partners. If both participants are comfortable with it, surely that's all right. I certainly don't have a problem with it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think I would have just a sex partner cos I like to be loved and know that the person I'm having sex with doesn't just see me as a sex object.

    If other people have a sex partner and they're completely comfortable with it then I don't see any problems.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've had sex with a few of my friends, nothing serious just casual sex and we've managed to stay good friends afterwards.

    Me and one of my other friends (Terri) have grown very close recently, we're just friends ut we flirt together stupidly, we've also been practicing some tantric stuff on each other, its been pretty weird as we ended up kissing last Friday, we then drifted apart slightly for a few days and now we're close again...
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