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Am i wierd??!!
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Hey y'all, just wondering if any one else is as messed up as me when it comes to relationships.
Here goes - im quite a confident person, or at least i come accross as one to other people, im a flirt, enjoy blokes company, and although im a virgin iv done everything else. The main problem is iv never actually been in a so called relationship because whenever a guy asks that dreaded questio "Will u go out with me?" i totally freek out, and find that i cant be with them, no matter how much i liked them in the first place. This must send out really messed up signals to the poor bloke who must get really confused as to what im about!! Dont really know how to deal with it, i guess im just scared of them knowing me too well, seeing me eat, seeing me at my worst, i duno. Am i just wierd or is anyone else like this? Lxxx
Here goes - im quite a confident person, or at least i come accross as one to other people, im a flirt, enjoy blokes company, and although im a virgin iv done everything else. The main problem is iv never actually been in a so called relationship because whenever a guy asks that dreaded questio "Will u go out with me?" i totally freek out, and find that i cant be with them, no matter how much i liked them in the first place. This must send out really messed up signals to the poor bloke who must get really confused as to what im about!! Dont really know how to deal with it, i guess im just scared of them knowing me too well, seeing me eat, seeing me at my worst, i duno. Am i just wierd or is anyone else like this? Lxxx
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Time if advancing slowly, feels like crap.
Love advancing slowly, feels like a eternity diviness.
Time advancing fast, feels great.
Love advancing fast feels like an eternity of nothingless.
Either way ur screwed.
ock youre nat weird!
tis normal to be a little shy, god knows ive been shy b4!
Useful trick -> if your prospective beloved's eyes dilate when you first speak it means they fancy you. Eyes also dilate when u take cocaine, but at least ull know there interested or a crack head!
Ask them out first!!!
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That way your in control of how things are going...
Spade
May fortune smile sweetly on you
You sound sooooo like me. I'm a virgin, although a lot of guys don't think I am because I have a dirty mind. I have lots of male friends and have been asked out loads of times and I've just freaked. I'm afraid of relationships too, even though I'd love to be in one. About guys seeing you eat and knowing you, you're not alone, I have similar problems.
Don't worry about it, I bet loads of girls are like you, I know I am.
Useful trick -> if your prospective beloved's eyes dilate when you first speak it means they fancy you. Eyes also dilate when u take cocaine, but at least ull know there interested or a crack head!
With me there have been times were girls have on-purpose shows that they have liked me, and have even hanged around until everyone else have left the room to make it easier for me. - But there is just stone silence as I dont have the courage to ask them anything.
The worst is when it gets to the extent where the girl has told other boys to tell me that they like me. - Then when I still do nothing they think I never liked them and they get hurt.
With one particular girl there are cycles where they give all the signs, and after me not doing anything they give up again. Then they try again in a months time or so. - I get this horrible feeling that this girl may have been single all this time - due to waiting for me. Albeit I've seen her talking to a boy in a fashion which is either because they are really good friends or they are together.
These 'cycles' have been going on for more than a year now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">(
Maybe I'll run away and join the circus <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/jesterlol.gif">
One of Heaven's lil Angels <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angel.gif">
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And that's going to help?!?! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
yeah ur typically female, ur the weirdest <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
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call me satan <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angryfire.gif">
excellent idea spade
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be happy
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Don't worry, because i am exactly the same. I am confident and yet when it comes to boys, i get embarassed and I always say 'no'. I never know what to say, and it's as if I don't want for them to get to know me.
I don't understand either! but REMEMBER you're not the only one!
kjones!
Useful trick -> if your prospective beloved's eyes dilate when you first speak it means they fancy you. Eyes also dilate when u take cocaine, but at least ull know there interested or a crack head!
Can I come along? I could be the bearded lady if I could afford a fake mustach..
dodgy