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How to i tell him how i feel!!! Its time i did something
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Its the weekend again and his mobile is switched off. I aint seen him since a week last friday just gone. He was/is??? working in North yorkshire, i don't know. I know the service on his mobile wasn't good, but he managed to call me every day up until thursday just gone. So where is he. He goes to hockey matches as he has a season ticket, and so does his ex...i checked out the fixtures and there is a match on tonite, so did he spend the whole weekend in sheffield (also in yorkshire...how comnvenient!!) or what. Is he getting the best of both worlds, or am i over reacting. Should i be pissed off that he sees her more than me? When we are together things couldn't be better. But when we are apart, and he's all mysterious and un-contactable what am i supposed to think. IS he avoiding me for fear of hurting his ex again, SHe knows about me so what is the problem. Is he alive!!!
Right folks...be as ruthless as you like, i want to know what you guys think...is it me?
Right folks...be as ruthless as you like, i want to know what you guys think...is it me?
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What right does he have to go off and basically sever all contact with you until is convenient for him ??
I would just let him know what ure feeling, and hopefully u should get some answers.
this is the guy that still carries a photo of his ex in his wallet?!? Is he going to the hockey games with her? I don't mean to freak u out, but it sounds kinda dodgy.
I think u shud tell him everything that u feel, ur doubts etc, and hope he makes an effort to understand.
Otherwise, his mobile could just be out of the reception area. This just sounds like a massive breakdown in communication. I think u shud try to talk to each other more (if u can get hold of him).
Good luck babes <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
I made contact with him this morning. He was working in north yorkshire which i knew about, but his accomodation was in an area where he had no reception on his mobile, which i also knew about.
He said that over the weekend he was at the place where he is staying, not working, and thats why i couldn't get hold of him. Could he not find a fone box.....of is that just something that females think about!! lol.
Anyway, i phoned him tonite and he's staying at his mates in Doncaster who he works with, i know he his coz i heard his mate in the background. When he said he was in Doncatser my immediate reaction was, its only 15miles away from Sheffield where his ex lives.
Thing is when she found out about me she asked that he return he keys etc. But he doesn't tell me the whole story, has she said to him i don't want you staying here anymore. Coz normally he would, and not stay in Doncaster. I don't know, he keeps himself to himself and it drives me mad.
I don't want to asked too many questions incase he things i'm a control freak like his ex was. I'll have to try the jokey/sarky approach me thinks!
It would be so much easier if we didn't get on, u know what i mean. But he's soo nice to me...or is it a guilty conscience???? AAAHHHHH!!!!!!
ur welcome <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
and just b on the look out ok? coz u don't wanna get hurt if u can help it! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me