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slipping out
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my bf and i have only had sex a few times. but some of the time when we are doing it, he seems to slip out a lot. this is really annoying, especially when you are getting right into things!! why does this keep happening? any ideas anyone? we use gossamer condoms, and lost our virginities to each other if that helps
thanking you muchly
thanking you muchly
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It often happens with me and a new girlfriend until I get the hang and feel of her - and I'm not just talking about being inside, but positions, etc. Does that make sense?
Mr_Wobble
nah, as you said, its prob just a matter of practising. we both lost our virginities to each other and have only had sex a few times, so yeh. im all too happy to practise until perfect!!
thanks
when it's hard, it's easy to get it back in, when you're not as horny it'll soften a bit and it'll slip out and won't go back in without assistance. you have to experiment with positions that suit. sometimes when you've been in one position for ages, it'll get a bit desensetised (sp?) and soften, so if you change position, it changes stimulation and keeps it hard
no such thing as perfect! it can always be better!
hey!!
me and my first b/f, who i also lost my V to, had this problem. the way we solved it was to have sex with him ontop, but he propped his upper body up on his hands+i held onto his ass/hips while we did it. it really turned him and me on, and helped him 'stay in place', lol. also, another advantage is that you can control the speed and power of his strokes more, he he
hope this helpes
xx tina xx
Keep practicing and it'll be fine.
oi matey. dont get smart with me :mad:
Very true. Maybe, as you've not be doing it for very long, you're rushing yourselves in your eagerness to explore the wonderful world of sexual pleasures ? You could try taking longer over foreplay to prevent, er, softness?
Fangita, I like it
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nightmare innit!