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really complicated prob!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I saw this lad i really like in town the other day, and i know he used 2 like me cuz he asked me out a while ago and I turned him down 4 a stupid reason.

I heard a couple of weeks ago that he was goin out with a girl i know!

I thought it had finished between them as he kept winkin at me and stuff and I decided i liked him, then he asked me 4 my new phone number.
I asked his mate if he was going out with this girl still and he was really shocked that i knew.

This lad hasnt txt or phoned me and Im not sure if its cuz he knows I know (about his gf who he is still with)
Or if its cuz he saw me with this rather fit lad that I went past him with..(only a mate..but he dont know that)

Me bein stupid 4got 2 ask him 4 his numba and now I really like him and dont know wot to do!!

Can any1 help??!



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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u need to investigate some more before you make a decision.

    u have a good source in this guy's mate. he looks like he is willing to share information with u. and u can probably get his phone number from the mate.

    so ring him, find out how that relationship is going and make an educated decision as to how u want to play it.

    but i will say this.. if he hasn't texted u as this point.. he maybe into his relationship, and u really have to ask urself if u want to get involved with a guy who is involved with someone else. that's not a very fun place to be most of the time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i agree ask a mate for his number.

    You can only know if he's in a relationship if u fone him <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Good luck!

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