Answer quick! Lack of sex

Former Member

Right

My girlfriend out rightly says

She can't be bothered to have sex!

We used to do it LOADS!
Now hardly ever!
we been goin out about 8 months!

It's REALLY pissing me off!!
I love the girl, but I get soo frustrated!
Am I right to be pissed off???

whenever i bring it up, she starts getting grumpy!!
Its making me have thoughts of looking for otehr girls!!

I feel bad as its just over sex, but to me its alot more with her!!!

what can I do....

am i right to b annoyed??

Former Member

well how much is hardly ever? maybe shes just bored with it now. sex in relationships are like watching one television program, over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over...

Former Member

getting to be like once a week!
And thats after a bit of begging!!

I shudn't have to beg!!

It annoys me that shes 'BORED' as she says its nothing to do me with, she just can't be bothered!
Makes me feel great!!!

specially as she says, if she met a new guy she'd do it all the time...

Former Member

maybe shes just not the right girl for you, maybe shes not looking for a full on relationship, just looking for fun until it goes away. maybe you should talk about it and see specifically why.

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i try talking, but she gets grumpy!
I know she stil wants a relationship, cos she is dead set on stayng together when she goes away to uni...300 miles away and she's spending well over £200 on me for my b-day!

just soo frustrating!
we spent the night together last night, and nothing happened!
I tried, but she weren't having it!

Former Member

is she on any type of medication that may make sex less enjoyable?

Former Member

only takes the pill like she always has done.......

Former Member

Try renting the movie Full Body Massage

http://www.imdb.com/Title?0113131

What used to happen when you were a kid, didn't your mummy tell you do to someting and the more she told you to do it the less you wanted to?


Sound like you're doing the same thing to your girlfriend - telling her to do something - and the more you tell her the less she wants to.

Try easing off and doing something for her instead of it being all about yourself - it sound like you're treating her like a piece of meat - tthat would be enough to put anyone off.

Former Member

LOL

Not like that at all!
I spend about £300-£500 a month on her
take her where ever she wants, let her go out and dow hat she wants...

all i want is sex now and again...

I spose im just moaning cos i was soo used to getting it all the time, now its non existant

Former Member

Sounds like she hasn't got the same sex drive as you. Happens a lot - readthis to find out more.

Former Member

Originally posted by SexGodNoMore

specially as she says, if she met a new guy she'd do it all the time...

Whoooo hold the fucking phone, what is this bitch doing telling you this for?

It's not helping you or anything! Hmmm dump her. Have some space on your own and try some new pussy. She'll come back if she really loves you. Don't be a mug any longer!!

Former Member

i agree with harmless here.

and tbh, i don't think she fancies you anymore.

so she's spending £200 on ur bday-she obviously still cares about you but maybe the sexual o0mph that was there at the beginning has gone?

Former Member

Yup, i gotta agree, and i've said it before, its that saying again; "if you love something, let it go..." and basically if its meant to be, she'll come back.
Maybe if you just lay off for a while, she'll feel neglected then suddenly want it more again? Its always the case of you want what you cant have and you dont realise what you had until its gone...

Former Member

yeh thats good advice, lay off it for a bit, just don't mention it and don't pressure her and see what happens

Former Member

Has it ever ocurred to you - that you're simply crap in bed?

And that she's bored with you and your technique.

That's why I suggested the movie - might give you some ideas on how to get her aroused and feel all warm and fuzzy without you banging away at her.

It really does sound like you treat her like meat - you spend money on her - therefore she should spread her legs for you.

Try being more loving towards her. romance her. let her know she's your entire world.

Do you ever hold her hand? Give her a kiss on the cheek as you leave her side and a hug when you return?

Do you ever kiss her and gently hold her face? Brush her hair back using your fingers?

Do you hold her in your arms and make her feel like you're the only two people in the world?

I'm guessing not!!!

Former Member

Diamond you are such a sweety, you should have women gagging to be in bed with you! Your a luuurver!

Former Member

i say

proclaim your celebacy, to everyone!

get her horny and worked up then one day suprise her or maybe she'll suprise you!

Former Member

Originally posted by VinylVicky
Diamond you are such a sweety, you should have women gagging to be in bed with you! Your a luuurver!

Yeah, Diamond .... I even fancy you now!