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Help me, IMPORTANT. I can't get over my ex, it's impossible.

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
It's been 2-3 months since we split up and he's never out of my mind. I mean NEVER. But what can i do? I do stupid things because of it. I never been through so much pain and tears in all my life. it really hurts to even see him flirting. Every night i end up crying, gotta go, it's depressing..

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    whyd u split up?
    being a personality is not the same as having a personality.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He dumped me, and he didn't give me a reason! I think he'd just had enough.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how long had u been 2 gether?was there ne other reason u think?do u love him/does he love u?
    being a personality is not the same as having a personality.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i really don't know what to say because i always dwell on the past too <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    i could say, just try to move on, but i have a feeling that if u are anyhting like me, that won't work.

    I'll give it my best shot -

    Turn to your friends to help u get thru this 1, hopefully they will support u, just completely involve urself with ur friends, and keep busy, go out and have fun with them. Try to keep out of this guy's way 4 a while, it mite bring back memories...

    i'm sorry this hasn't been much help has it?
    If the sky that we look upon
    should tumble and fall
    or the mountains should crumble in the sea
    I won't cry, I won't cry,
    No, I won't shed a tear
    Just as long as you stand
    Stand by me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know what u mean, i was rejected once and never really got over her but i can live with it now. I still feel for her a little but she rarely crosses my mind.

    ull get used to it, even if it takes a decade.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Go and read my post mate. I'm doing exactly the same thing 'cept my ex keeps coming back but i think its only a casual thing for him. I see him all the time and it makes it SO hard........ <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
    I'd take the stars out the sky for you,
    There's nothing in this world i wouldnt do,
    If i could be your girl...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know how u feel. me and my ex has broken up just over a month now and i can't say im over him or going to be over him in a short period of time. believe it not...one time it took me 7 months to get over an ex.

    we broke up for a very good reason, and i know the reason is still there so i try not to dwell on him too much...

    i found this new guy and we're getting friendly. he's a lovely fella but have to admit, i still miss my ex A LOT. so im kinda confused am i using this guy to get over my ex...just for the sake of having some one there. still trying to work it out...

    anyways...it's so hard to give advice to a broken-heart. it's something that the individual can only do themselves.

    but go out with your friends, enjoy your life and keep busy. sooner than u think...someone really nice might come along and you're back in the game!!

    goodluck!
    children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    y dont you try talking about the way u feel to him? maybe if he understands how u feel he wont flirt infront of u or maybe he feels the same way!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We werent 2getha that long, 3 months, that's it. But i do love him to pieces, i have never felt this was about any1 in all me life. I can't get away from him, he hangs around with my crowd if u know wot i mean. I have tried again and agian, it's just not working. I talked 2 him bout it and he did feel the same way a while ago but he didnt want to. Now i just don't know wot he feels. He's getting into other girls, and when he tells me my go's CRACK!! My life seems to be a mess, and i cant stop it. I feel so alone aswell, thanx 4 ur help ppl. I wish i could turn back time. Soz if i'm going on a bit but that's the way it is.

    Thanx
    xxxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know exactly how u feel!!
    I dumped my ex just b4 xmas so its been about 2 months since we split up (we were 2gether for 5 months) & even though i am now goin out wit this great guy (have been 4 about a month now!) i still have feelings 4 him!
    I woz just starting 2 get over him coz i hadn't had ne contact wit him 4 ages then a few weeks ago he comes in2 the place where i work & we start chatting again, exchange nos etc. I even slept round his house a couple of weeks ago (nothing happened) but 4 sum reason i felt like i woz cheating on my bf!
    I have told my ex that i'm really busy & so can't hang out wit him that much ne more coz i feel that the only way i'm gonna get over him is 2 not c him!
    I know i must sound like a rite bitch 2 my bf & my ex but i really like my bf as well as my ex even though i know nothing is ever gonna happen wit my ex!
    Soz just had 2 get that out of my system.
    If ur ne thing like me then i think u need 2 take a break from seeing him 4 a while whilst u get over him coz otherwise u never will!
    Good luck! XxX
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