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ANSWER NOW PLEASE!!! i need your help
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Right my ex g/f, best mate, has dumped me in some of her trouble. see she used to stay round mine when we were going out and does occasionally now. but thing is she told her mum last nite she was satying round mine, for some reason her mum foned our house and my dad told her she was not here. i didnt even know that she had told her mum she was staying here.well she in faxct went to this other blokes house and i assume slept with him, even though she tells me she dont like him more than a mate. but i think its cos she is scared she'll lose him if she didnt sleep with him as he has met her tiwce and keeps on telling her he loves her like no other man etc etc, and that he wants to make love to her and he aint had sex in a year, so i guess she gave it to him. but thing is she tx me asking if im not talking to her and said sorry for what she has done, i duno if i should tx her back or what, shes done this once before and said sorry back then, but then again i dont wana lose her cos i still care for her and love her even though i am over her. what should i do? tx her back or ignore her?
Please help! i need all answers by 10PM tonight pls, when i will decide what to do!
L-I-L
Please help! i need all answers by 10PM tonight pls, when i will decide what to do!
L-I-L
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Cos i'm thinking about a brand new hope, one i've never known, and where it goes, cos now I know it's all that wanted.
we already told u to lose this girl <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
she don't sound like she's doing u any favours, i honestly think u'd be better off without her.
i know it's hard letting go of someone you care about so much, but sometimes it just has to be done. This girl is causing u so much pain, stringing you along and not letting you move on with your life.
It's time to cut the cord and let go. At first you'll be like, this is scary, i want her back, because what u have with her is familiar and secure, but in the long run, i promise you it will be worth it. You will come out a better person and be happier and find another to lover and who also might love you back. If this girllovedyou, she would be with oyu. Let her go man, she's not worth it.
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
Nice to see you moving on and getting your life in order. Good luck with your new love.
I don't live to work, I work to live and I live at the weekends. I'm the last of the big time drinkers.
good luck, i hope you find happiness with your new girl <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
and don't worry if she don't contact u. Just leave it coz she ain't worth it.
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
dont you think that people would have taken Ghandi more seriously if he didn't have the first name 'Mahatma'... just a thought.
L-I-L
I dont think shes using you a bad way/she aint taking you for granted that much.she trusts you as her friend to help her out.she obviously v sorry,she knows what she has done-she made the independent move and said sorry to you first.
*be there for her.
it's not ur place to tell him where to go. if u did it wud probably just make things worse for you. It's her problem i know u care about her, but if she's too thick to see what he's doing and only believes what she wants to believe then you can't help her, so let her go!
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
how exactly do you feel?
dont question threateningly,just lead her to do the talking,dont always look really worried or she will find you annoying,just subtly.
i really dont think you should leave her,as i said shes a friend and she values u a sa friend from what i hear,ok so shes used u but her motive is yr her friend and thats what friends are for and she went about it the wrong way and she seemed truly sorry.
good luck
dont you think that people would have taken Ghandi more seriously if he didn't have the first name 'Mahatma'... just a thought.